妈妈。

“我的丈夫尼克和我住在布鲁克林在同一个街区九年左右，他租了一个地方几门从我们目前的家庭，这是了他住在艺术工作室，我在那里与他移动了一年半之后，a half of dating. I loved everything about living in my hot artist boyfriend’s art studio—dating, getting a puppy, and falling in love. It was a special time. We bought our current condo three years ago, and only looked at a few apartments. It’s a similar loft on the same street, and because we knew we loved the neighborhood, it was an easy decision."

“我们的阁楼有华丽的原始木梁和旧工厂的宽木板地板。在我们添加任何东西之前，它有自己的特殊性格。我们的审美是偶尔的大胆和明亮的装饰的折衷主义混合，偶尔的惊喜。到处都是a mix of sentimental mementos and pieces we’ve bought on our travels mixed with random cool shit we thought looked fun. I want it to feel fun and wild, and I tend to be attracted to very eccentric things. I want a home that never bores. I was pushing hard for a while to have a rock climbing wall in our apartment. My husband has fantastic taste that is more grounded, so he reels me in."

"We renovated for six months before we moved in. We built slightly into the living room to add our son’s bedroom. At the time I wasn’t pregnant yet, so it was our dog’s room—I leaned into how crazy that was and fully decorated it for the dog. We changed the kitchen from a green farmhouse vibe to a more modern charcoal, replaced an upholstered wall in the bedroom with concrete, transformed a storage room into a guest room, and added a fireplace and a projector screen. Weirdly, the most costly renovation was transforming the pantry into the laundry room, because it involved moving sprinklers, which apparently is a whole thing. In the end, we created a very special home that feels uniquely us."

Laura wears a Johanna Ortiz dress. Rilo wears Agatha Cub.">

"My dad used to work on rocket ships when I was young and I wanted to create a happy outer space escape for Rilo, complete with a moon light and a ceiling full of planets and stars. The room is very small but it’s full of joy and bright colors. He asks us to show him the moon every night before bed. I like to constantly be reminded that the world is so much bigger than just us, and nothing does that more than looking at the stars."

劳拉穿约翰娜·奥尔蒂斯裙子。riilo wears阿加莎的幼崽．

Mociun used to have a shelf that I’d walk by and admire every day. We hired the same contractors they used and tried to do our own take on a statement shelf. I wanted a place where I could artfully display our knick-knacks. The Jonathan Adler swivel chairs came first, and from there I picked the color scheme. It looks like a sunset and it’s simultaneously eye-catching and peaceful."">

“A店附近叫Mociun曾经有一个我每天走过的架子和佩服。我们聘请了他们使用的同一承包商，并试图做出自己的陈述架。我想要一个我可以巧妙地展示我们的knick-knacks的地方。Jonathan Adler旋转椅子首先是，从那里挑选了配色方案。它看起来像日落，它同时引人注目和平安。“

The Future Perfect and it plays off the shape and color of the shelves in the living room."">

“餐厅里到处都是我丈夫的艺术墙。选择挂哪件是我最喜欢的装饰日之一。他从他的工作室带来了大量的艺术作品，我选择了我最喜欢的作品，我们一起想办法把什么像拼图一样贴在墙上。我是我丈夫的超级粉丝，我喜欢我们家周围的每一件他的艺术品。我最喜欢的是走廊里的一幅绿色画，那是我第一次去看他的艺术展时画的。它既美丽又令人毛骨悚然。我也喜欢餐厅里老式的电影灯光。那是前房主的，当我们出价买下那间公寓时，我把灯也装进去了。我们桌子上方的镜子是未来的完美而且它还发挥了客厅书架的形状和颜色。”

"I definitely value having a home that doesn’t feel cluttered or messy. Rilo has something that is his in every room of the house, whether it’s his own cleaning toys in the kitchen, colorful blocks that double as decor in the hallway, or books in our bedroom. Half of the living room is his play area and the other half is very designed. It’s like a mullet in that way—depending on where you look, it’s a different vibe. I try to only keep enough toys that will fit in the cabinets or toy baskets, so when they’re put away at the end of the day, everything looks calm. I think organization is healthy for children in general. He knows where to find what he’s looking for and life feels slightly less chaotic. But when he’s playing, I let him go crazy. I want him to be free to use every inch of his creative spirit around the home."

“能成为这个美丽而智慧的人类在地球上的向导是多么的荣幸啊。我很高兴能教他我所知道的每一件深奥而平凡的事情，从如何努力过有意义的生活到如何从眼睛里去掉肥皂。成为母亲让我在这个世界上有了一种深刻的使命感。每天他都学到一些新东西，或者想出一些有趣的新方法。每天都是一份礼物。我将永远感激能有机会做他的母亲。我真的相信他选择了我，他是我的精神导师，就像我是他的一样。他是他自己的人，我最激动的是支持他决定成为谁。能见证他的一生是最不可思议的事。”

"I also realize that there are a lot of choices I have to make that will greatly affect his life and future, from what school I choose to child rearing philosophies. My mom jokes that we spend our lives getting over our childhood and the mistakes our parents made, and I just don’t want that to be the case. I have zero control about how he’ll feel in the future about his childhood, but I think about it often; wanting his future approval. I hope he wants to be my best friend forever and think I was the best mom in the world. And it is totally irrational and something I have zero control over. In the end, I just want to be a really good mom. I am a flawed human that will make mistakes and I am doing the best I can every moment with the knowledge I have right now."">

“我想我最担心他的安全和健康的一般。生活中有没有保证。在某些方面，我是一个很放手，嬉皮寒意，非直升机-Y的妈妈，并在其他方面我有很多of irrational fears and anxieties about something happening to him. A few months ago I had a health scare when the E.R. misread a CT scan and missed my appendicitis. My appendix ruptured and I spent months fighting a deadly infection. Life is fragile, the world is crazy, and as a mom of a young child that can be terrifying."

“我也意识到，我必须做出很多选择，这些选择将极大地影响他的生活和未来，从我选择的学校到抚养孩子的理念。我妈妈开玩笑说我们花了一辈子的时间来克服我们的童年和我们父母所犯的错误，我只是不想这样。我无法控制他将来对童年的感受，但我经常会想到这一点;希望得到他未来的认可。我希望他想永远做我最好的朋友，认为我是世界上最好的妈妈。这完全是非理性的，我完全无法控制。最后，我只想做个好妈妈。我是一个有缺陷的人，也会犯错，但我每时每刻都在利用我现有的知识做到最好。”

“我不在乎我们的孩子是什么性别，但我确实发现了。我不擅长惊喜。对我来说，给孩子取一个男女通用的名字很重要，我尽量不把性别标准的兴趣强加给他。我给他穿的是中性的。他会穿粉红色的裤子或发夹来遮住他的头发。他有各种各样的玩具——魔杖、娃娃、厨房、火车和汽车。当谈到抚养一个男孩时，我特别想到的几件事是鼓励他的情感，教他保护自己的身体界限。如果他不想被抚摸、拥抱或亲吻，我希望人们尊重他们需要他的允许，同时他也会学会尊重别人的空间。我试图意识到我内化的任何潜意识的性别角色。现在，我有一个非常可爱和温柔的一岁半的孩子。 There are a lot of big things to think about in the future."

“里洛·希亚·拉德。我们想要一个男女通用的名字，既要独特，又不要听起来太奇怪。”我喜欢里洛·基利乐队，我们还在一本婴儿书里看到了这个名字。不管他是男孩还是女孩，这都将是他的名字。希亚是我祖母的名字，我和她很亲近。奇怪的是，我们最纠结的是姓氏。拉德是我丈夫从18岁开始就一直用的姓。这是他合法姓氏拉德科夫斯基的缩写。我们结婚时，我保留了自己的姓氏，所以当我们都不使用丈夫的合法姓氏时，让儿子使用丈夫的姓氏感觉很奇怪。我丈夫建议给儿子取我的姓，我很感激，但感觉也不对。我们差点就想出了他自己的姓，雷。 I thought it was beautiful and my husband liked it because of the artist Man Ray. But my parents, who are very diplomatic, said straight up that they hated the idea. In the end, we gave our son the last name my husband uses for his art, and even though it’s a very specific last name, I think it was the right decision. We all three have different legal last names! If Rilo decides to change it when he’s older because he thinks it sounds too much like a '90s skateboarder, I’ll support it."

"He is one and a half years old. He very much loves trains and firetrucks and rocket ships and the moon. He’s also very into cleaning—his toy kitchen, his guitar, and his baby doll. He is a very gentle spirit. I try consciously not to push any gender normative expectations or interests on him while wholeheartedly supporting any and all of his passions."

“我一直都知道我想成为一名母亲，只是觉得有一天我会做到。我从没怀疑过会发生这种事。当我25岁左右的时候，母性本能袭击了我。我内心深处渴望着去关心另一个人。当时我正在和我现在的丈夫约会，知道我们俩都没有准备好要孩子，所以我们收养了一只狗。”

“在我们考虑要孩子前不久，我发现我出生时只有一个肾脏和半个子宫——被称为单角子宫。这是很罕见的，当我发现我的器官和器官的一部分不见了时，我感到非常震惊，而我一直以为这些器官一直都在那里。我被告知怀孕并不难，但保持怀孕却很难。我将是一个高危妊娠，有40%到50%的机会早产，死产的风险更高。关于独角子宫的女性的留言板上有一些可怕的故事。我想知道代孕和收养的事。我试了六个月想怀孕，两个月左右流产了。我崩溃了，非常沮丧。几个月后，我怀上了里洛。我一直在谷歌上搜索流产和活产率的统计数据，同时尽力保持放松，尽管我已经被贴上了高风险的标签。 I had this idea of a low-intervention pregnancy and birth, but then I had to get ultrasounds like every two weeks to make sure I wasn’t going into early labor. I did everything I could to stay relaxed: mediation, craniosacral therapy, acupuncture, prenatal yoga. I carried him to 37 weeks and I’ll be grateful for the rest of my life. He is an absolute miracle. I completely loved being pregnant because every single symptom meant that I was still pregnant and every day he was in my belly was a gift."

"I didn't take any formal maternity leave, mostly because I don’t have a typical office job. I was performing on stage in a sketch comedy show six days before I went into labor. Toward the end of the pregnancy I’d keep emailing the artistic director each month and say, 'I still feel really great if you want to extend our show run, I can still perform!' The belly got a lot of laughs on stage. I got my book deal while I was pregnant, so I went back to writing it about four weeks after his birth. My writing partner was very supportive of giving me as much time and space as I needed, but I think I needed a creative outlet to get me out of my postpartum anxiety, so we started meeting a couple times a week. I took it very slow getting back into work, but writing again helped me feel more like myself. I had a c-section because he was breached, which happens frequently with my condition, and I absolutely hated it and didn’t have an easy recovery. Having a creative outlet and finding my mom tribe simultaneously helped get me out of my funk."

Bringing Up Bebe when I was pregnant and loved a lot of the book’s description of certain French child rearing philosophies, like communicating with babies as if they understand everything. The books that have had the biggest impact in my personal parenting philosophy are by far Janet Lansbury’s books No Bad Kids and Elevating Child Care. Respectful Parenting or RIE speaks to my parenting instincts and it’s what we follow at home and encourage with other caregivers. I also recently read The Montessori Toddler and thought it was great. I eat predominantly plant based, plus some sustainable fish, and Rilo follows my mostly vegan diet. We follow @whitneyerd, @plantbasedjuniors, and @whatalieats for fantastic resources on nutrition."">

“我读抚养碧碧我怀孕时和亲人很多法国某育儿哲学的书的描述，就像仿佛他们了解一切与婴儿交流。已经在我的个人哲学养育影响最大的书是目前珍妮特·兰斯伯里的书没有坏孩子和升降幼儿．尊重的育儿或rie对我的养育本能说话，这就是我们在家里跟随的，鼓励其他看护人。我也最近读过了蒙台梭利幼儿并以为这很棒。我主要基于植物，加上一些可持续的鱼，而Rilo遵循我的纯素食。我们遵循@whitneyerd那@plantbasedjuniors,@whatalieats对于营养的伟大资源。“

Serena Williams, Chrissy Tiegen, and Blake Lively. Serena Williams was refreshingly open about her birth experience in ways I found very comforting. Chrissy Tiegen seems like a very fun mom and her videos always make me laugh. And Blake Lively seems like she’d be a very joyful mother and probably has the best closet to play dress up in. I am inspired by their ability to juggle ambitions in addition to being mothers. In general, I am drawn to moms who don’t pretend everything is perfect and are willing to share their specific experience, but keep a non judgmental attitude."

Laura wears Rachel Comey pants and a Mara Hoffman top. Rilo wears Agatha Cub pants and a Giggle top.">

“在现实生活中，很难有一个我不认识的妈妈偶像，因为做母亲是一件非常亲密的事情。给我最好建议的偶像是我母亲部落的女性，如果我们不是在同一时间生了孩子，并一起分享这种独特的经历，我可能永远不会遇到她们。他们给了我一种团体感。如果要我列出一些很酷的妈妈，我想我会说小威廉姆斯那克里希Tiegen,布莱克活泼．塞雷娜·威廉姆斯(Serena Williams)爽快地讲述了她的分娩经历，让我感到非常欣慰。Chrissy Tiegen看起来是个很有趣的妈妈，她的视频总是让我笑。布莱克·莱弗利看起来会是一个非常快乐的母亲，她可能有一个最好的衣橱来玩装扮。她们除了做母亲之外，还能兼顾雄心壮志，这让我深受鼓舞。总的来说，我更喜欢那些不假装一切都很完美、愿意分享自己具体经验、但又保持客观态度的妈妈们。”

劳拉穿瑞秋喜剧裤子和裤子马拉霍夫曼最佳。riilo wears阿加莎的幼崽裤子和裤子咯咯地笑最佳。

“我在南加州长大。我们会自驾游去沙漠度假，和朋友在海滩上燃起篝火，在后院的洒水器里玩耍。我妈妈喜欢举办最具创意的派对——这绝对是她遗传给我的。一位小学老师很早就告诉我妈妈:我不会纠正劳拉的拼写或标点符号，因为她喜欢写作，我不想阻止她。这一直困扰着我妈妈，现在我成了一名作家!这个故事总是提醒我要让我的孩子走在前面。我想和里洛分享我童年的美好时光:一个充满艺术和创造力的世界，在客厅里表演戏剧，和朋友们一起跳舞和举办派对。还有一些事情，我打算以不同的方式去做，主要是在纪律方面。当我还是个孩子的时候，我花了很多时间写数百个句子，比如“我不会打我的兄弟”，当我们表现好的时候，我会得到贴纸或扑克筹码，以及其他我不会使用的游戏式策略。不过我不评判它! Every parent does their best and trends change each decade."

"Of everything I’ve read, RIE parenting is the closest to my style and has taught me the most. I explain everything that is happening to him and tell him what the plans are for the day. I rarely intervene when he’s figuring something out or show him the 'correct' way a toy should be used. I don’t draw on his artwork. And a huge one for me is validating his emotions. I’ll never say to him, 'That didn’t hurt, you’re okay.' I want him to feel that all of his feelings are valid and honored. I also don’t really teach sharing. I believe sharing develops naturally by modeling empathy, and I let him or another child finish playing with what they are engaged in. And I don’t do timeouts. We do lots of positive reinforcement like, 'Thank you for sleeping until 8 am. The whole family appreciates getting sleep!' or 'You were so kind to your friend when you were playing.' I am very careful about not labeling him things like 'shy' or 'difficult.' I don’t want him to internalize any of that. I believe a tantrum is just an expression of intense emotion so I’ll hold him so he feels safe or tell him to let it out and that I am here for a hug when he’s ready. He’s only one and a half, so this could all very easily change in the future, and it absolutely doesn’t work for every family or child, but as of now, this is the philosophy we’re going with!"">

“我的儿子是一个非常可爱、温柔、愚蠢、非常独立和精神的灵魂。我让他带路，告诉我他需要什么才能茁壮成长。我试着创造一个安全的环境，充满“是”和自由，并给予界限，只是为了让他感到安全和被爱。我是一个非常爱，深情，愚蠢，冷静，和同情的母亲。我每天都告诉他，能有机会做他的母亲，我是多么感激，感谢他选择了我。我用吉他为他创作歌曲和广告曲，我用声音阅读书籍，每天寻找小冒险。我尽量避免说“我只是想让我的孩子开心”这样的话，因为这是一个cliché，它忽略了生活的复杂性和层次，当你不是一直感到“开心”时，会导致失望。内啡肽的状态不是恒定的。我只希望我的儿子有一个满足和充满活力的生活。”

"Of everything I’ve read, RIE parenting is the closest to my style and has taught me the most. I explain everything that is happening to him and tell him what the plans are for the day. I rarely intervene when he’s figuring something out or show him the 'correct' way a toy should be used. I don’t draw on his artwork. And a huge one for me is validating his emotions. I’ll never say to him, 'That didn’t hurt, you’re okay.' I want him to feel that all of his feelings are valid and honored. I also don’t really teach sharing. I believe sharing develops naturally by modeling empathy, and I let him or another child finish playing with what they are engaged in. And I don’t do timeouts. We do lots of positive reinforcement like, 'Thank you for sleeping until 8 am. The whole family appreciates getting sleep!' or 'You were so kind to your friend when you were playing.' I am very careful about not labeling him things like 'shy' or 'difficult.' I don’t want him to internalize any of that. I believe a tantrum is just an expression of intense emotion so I’ll hold him so he feels safe or tell him to let it out and that I am here for a hug when he’s ready. He’s only one and a half, so this could all very easily change in the future, and it absolutely doesn’t work for every family or child, but as of now, this is the philosophy we’re going with!"

“是的。这让我比以往任何时候都更加意识到我教给孩子的价值观。我来自一个动物保护主义者的家庭，我经常思考如何自己做得更多。我想为他贡献一份力量，让世界变得更美好——无论是对抗畜牧业、气候变化，还是帮助那些不幸的人。我想让他在成长过程中有一个积极主动的榜样，而不是被动的，即使有时会感到无助。”

"There are so many moments when we doubt ourselves. I would tell someone that they are the best mom for their child. For me, I’m not the best mom in the world, I’m just 100% the best mom for this unique human."

“我希望我们的未来能有另一个孩子。里洛喜欢婴儿就像他喜欢火车一样。”

Cinderella and the Glass Ceiling and Other Feminist Fairy Tales hits stands March 10, 2020. It’s adapted from a sketch comedy show I co-wrote and starred in at the UCB Theater. It’s a feminist retelling of 12 classic fairy tales for the modern era. I also have a comedy podcast adapted from my first humor book called This Is Why You’re Single that I co-host. As a writer, I have a piece in the upcoming McSweeney’s Quarterly Concern Issue 59 and have written for the New Yorker."">

“我是一个作家，记者，播客，和喜剧作家。我的第二本书灰姑娘和玻璃天花板和其他女权主义童话故事现在是2020年3月10日。它改编自我与人合写并在UCB剧院主演的一部喜剧小品。它是对现代12个经典童话故事的女权主义重述。我还有一个喜剧播客改编自我的第一本幽默书这就是你单身的原因我的搭档。作为一名作家，我即将发表一篇文章麦克韦尼季度值得关注的问题59，为采写《纽约客》．"

OK! I jumped at the chance and packed my bags. ESPN let me cover the Knicks and sports events in NYC and then I started hosting a poker show for ESPN.com. I was doing that for awhile, but it was very hard to manage both. I was working seven days a week covering events for the magazine until 1 a.m. or being a talking head on various TV shows on MTV or Entertainment Tonight. Then I’d drive up to Bristol, Connecticut, on Sundays for production meetings and host the poker show for ESPN. Eventually I couldn’t do both, and the poker show ended. I was still working at Life & Style magazine full time, and then I moved to People magazine. I also freelanced for Esquire and Vanity Fair, but when I started taking improv and sketch comedy classes for fun, that changed my life."">

“我在南加州长大，在南加州大学(University of Southern California)上大学，学的是新闻和政治学。我大学毕业后的第一份工作是在E!和ESPN。我同时为ESPN报道湖人队和道奇队的比赛，为E!对于一个21岁的人来说，这是很有趣的，但当时我已经厌倦了在洛杉矶的生活，梦想着搬到纽约。当我得到纽约一家周刊的工作时好的!我抓住了这个机会，并收拾好行装。ESPN让我盖在纽约尼克斯队和体育赛事，然后我开始主持一个ESPN.com扑克秀。我是这样做了一段时间，但它是很难以管理。我工作一周七天覆盖的杂志事件，直到凌晨1点或者是说话的头部上的各种电视节目在MTV或今夜娱乐。然后我开车到布里斯托尔，康涅狄格州，在周日进行生产会议，主办ESPN扑克节目。最后，我不能两者都做，而扑克牌表演结束。我还在工作生活方式杂志全职，然后我搬到了人杂志。我也为自由职业《时尚先生》和《名利场》但当我开始上即兴表演和喜剧小品课取乐时，这改变了我的生活。”

This Is Why You’re Single about my dating life when I was single that took off, and then I got a book deal to turn it into a book. From that I started a podcast that became very successful. The book got optioned for TV and I was asked to co-write the pilot. That’s when I quit People magazine to give writing on my own a shot. Since then, I’ve co-written a second sketch show called Femme Fairy Tales that’s a feminist take on classic fairy tales. I wrote the show before I was pregnant, but the way it worked out, we got our run at the theater when I just started showing, so I performed up until six days before I gave birth. When I was pregnant, I got a book deal to turn that comedy show into a book, and now we’re working on trying to turn it into a TV show—fingers crossed! I also started missing journalism and have started to go back to writing more and recently wrote for The New Yorker."">

“我共同写了一个叫做素描这就是你单身的原因关于我的约会生活，当我单身起飞时，然后我有一本书交易将它变成一本书。从那时起，我开始了一个非常成功的播客。这本书被选为电视，我被要求共同写出飞行员。那是我退出的时候人给自己写文章的机会。从那以后，我和别人合写了第二部小品剧女人的童话故事这是女权主义者对经典童话的诠释。我在怀孕前就写了这部剧，但结果是，我刚开始演出的时候我们就去剧院演出了，所以我一直表演到生孩子的前六天。当我怀孕的时候，我得到了一本书的合约，用来改编那个喜剧节目成书，现在我们正试图把它变成一个电视节目——祈祷吧!我也开始想念新闻业，最近开始重新开始写作写作《纽约客》．"

The New Yorker print issue, and landed a piece in the McSweeney’s Quarterly Concern. It’s just been a bizarre year with a lot of momentum. I have never accomplished more in less time. If I’m not with Rilo, I need to be doing things that matter: Either creating work I’m proud of or doing something that makes me a more fulfilled human."">

"I was extremely nervous about feeling like I wouldn’t have an identity outside of motherhood. I really, really wanted to get a book deal while I was pregnant so that I would have one big project to focus on and luckily, it happened. Strangely, this has been one of the most successful career years of my life, which is something I never thought would happen before having a child. It’s extremely important to me that I am a very present and involved mother, while at the same time, I want my son to grow up seeing a mother who has her own interests and is accomplished outside of the home. Trying to balance both has pushed me to focus only on career opportunities I care about, because my time is very limited. I have no problem saying no to anything I don’t want to do. It’s been a huge release to not do things out of obligation anymore. My son comes first. Somehow that has pushed my career into greater successes and I was able to accomplish almost every goal I set out this year: our podcast hit almost 4 million downloads, I have my second book deal, I performed at the Chicago Sketch Festival, got my first piece in《纽约客》印刷发行，并在在筹划的季度关注．这是奇怪的一年，有很多动力。我从来没有在这么短的时间内完成这么多事情。如果我不和里洛在一起，我需要做一些有意义的事情:要么创造让我感到自豪的工作，要么做一些让我更充实的事情。”

"We don’t have family in New York, but we are both incredibly lucky to both have immensely loving and supportive families who have flown out on many occasions to help out. I’ve found a couple great babysitters who are teachers or doulas in the area, and we have the most wonderful nanny, who is very flexible with my crazy schedule."

对你不想做的事情说不，限制义务，保持组织，提前计划好每件事!我有一个非常详细的，用颜色标注的日历，可能会让很多人非常焦虑，但却能让我保持冷静。我们的保姆每周四都会待到很晚，直到晚上11点，这是我们指定的“热恋之夜”。把它写在每周的日历上意味着无论我们有多忙，有多累，我们都要去约会，优先考虑开始这一切的美好的伙伴关系!”

“我不经常有妈妈内疚感，因为当我不在他身边的时候，我所做的一切都让我成为一个更有成就感的人，这让我成为一个伟大的母亲。”对我来说很重要的是，我的儿子将我视为一个有成就的人，有自己的兴趣和身份，与他不同。”

“和里洛在一起让我的生活重新开始了友谊，我认为这在很大程度上要归功于布鲁克林的生活。我遇到了一群不可思议的妈妈朋友，他们都住在15分钟的步行范围内。对我们两人来说，这份友谊是无价的。我有一个支持系统，而他有社会化。他和婴儿朋友玩得很开心。我也喜欢和他一起去任何我想去的地方。我们去最美妙的手语课、音乐课、木偶课、艺术课、游泳课、瑜伽课，还有公园——所有这些都在我们公寓不远的地方。”

Laura wears a vintage dress. Rilo wears a Coterie diaper. ">

“我们想过简单地搬到加州，但有一个孩子后，就已经证实了我对这座城市的承诺。纽约是这样一个充满活力的地方，充满美丽的文化和经验。在一个雨天，我们可以去大都会! It’s not a bad life. I love living in a walkable city with a child. When we go to Los Angeles, I feel like there are only two things we can do each day because it takes so long to get anywhere. In New York, it’s just so easy. On our days together, we can go to the park, run errands, have lunch, go to a music class, see a friend, go shopping, meet my husband for dinner, and watch the sunset on the water, all in one day without every stepping in a car. It’s beautiful."

劳拉穿着一件复古连衣裙。Rilo戴着圈子尿布。

MoMA, the Brooklyn Botanic Garden, the Brooklyn Museum, The Met, The New Museum, TheTransit Museum, The Brooklyn Children’s Museum, and The Met Breuer—we started doing Friday adventures when he was a baby. Back then he was amazed by the colors and shapes and now he’s curious about everything. He naps in my carrier on the subway home or we’ll go in the afternoon. In Williamsburg, Domino Park is gorgeous for walking along the water or playing in the sprinklers in the summer, and McCarren Park is great for looking for squirrels. We walk on the water a lot to watch the boats or take the ferry to Dumbo. In terms of restaurants, the best spots are Two Hands and Shanti Shack for lunch and Sunday in Brooklyn and Cantina Royal for dinner. For drinks we love The Hoxton Hotel or Dumbo House in Dumbo. The Wild and Eckford Street Studio have fantastic kids' classes and art classes. For shopping, Smoochie Baby has cute clothes for him and Bird Brooklyn has cute clothes for me. Beam is the best design store."">

“我们去的博物馆有很多在一起。该现代艺术博物馆， 这布鲁克林植物园， 这布鲁克林博物馆那大都会博物馆那新博物馆那TheTransit Museum.那布鲁克林儿童博物馆,大都会布鲁尔-当他还是个婴儿的时候，我们就开始做星期五的冒险了。那时候他对颜色和形状感到惊讶，现在他对一切都很好奇。他坐地铁回家的时候在我的车里打个盹，不然我们下午就走。在威廉斯堡,Domino公园在夏天沿着水散步或在洒水器里玩耍是非常棒的，还有迈凯轮公园散步是伟大的寻找松鼠。我们走在水面上了很多看热闹的船只或乘坐渡轮前往小飞象。在餐饮方面，最好的斑点两只手和亮丽人生小屋吃午饭,星期天在布鲁克林和酒吧皇家当晚餐。对于我们爱的饮料在霍克顿酒店或者小飞象房子小飞象。野外和艾克福德街工作室开设精彩的儿童课程和艺术课。对于购物,Smoochie宝贝有可爱的衣服为他和鸟布鲁克林有可爱的衣服给我。梁是最好的设计商店。”

“我穿着类似我怎么样来装饰我们的家。：。不拘一格，明亮，大胆，我吸引到有趣的面料和削减，羽毛，亮片，金属色，和喜悦和乐趣的整体感”

“在头14个月母乳喂养的时候，情况发生了很大变化，因为后勤方面的原因，我不得不考虑每一件衣服，但现在我回到了以前的自己。”

Artipoppe. Their carriers have become a staple of my wardrobe and I own three of them. They are comfortable and stylish! Backpacks and cool fanny packs have also become staples because I need something to balance the weight and keep it easy. I love Baggu’s fanny packs and backpacks because they are light and durable, and I found a used sporty Chanel backpack online I wear a lot. In terms of fashion, Rachel Comey has been speaking my aesthetic language lately. Viva Aviva is one of my favorite designers. She lives nearby and we became friends after I blindly emailed her when I lost a cape to one of her dresses. I also love Rosie Assoulin, A Detacher, Saint Laurent, Apiece Apart, Caron Callahan, Dries Van Noten, Mara Hoffman, Martiniano, Ulla Johnson, and Maryam Nassir Zadeh. I have fun dressing up for our date nights. My husband will look at me and say, 'Is this a fancy thing we are going to?' and I’ll say, 'Nope! This is for me.'"">

“在我找到之前，我随身携带riilo，在发现之前尝试了很多运营商ARIPOPPE.．他们的背带已经成为我衣柜里的主要物品，我有三个。它们既舒适又时尚!背包和酷酷的腰包也成为了我的必需品，因为我需要一些东西来平衡重量并保持它的简单性。我爱Baggu的腰包和背包，因为它们轻便耐用，我在网上找到了一个二手的香奈儿运动背包，我经常穿。在时尚方面，瑞秋喜剧最近一直在讲述审美语言。Viva Aviva.是我最喜欢的设计师之一。她在附近生活，在我盲目地通过电子邮件给她发电子邮件后，我们成为了朋友。我也喜欢罗西Assoulin那一个剥离器那圣罗兰那各自分开那Caron Callahan.那Dries Van Noten.那马拉霍夫曼那马蒂尼亚诺那乌拉约翰逊,Maryam Nassir Zadeh.．我很乐意为我们的约会之夜盛装打扮。我的丈夫会看着我说，‘我们要去做的事很花哨吗?’我就说:‘不行!这是给我的。’”

Vintner’s Daughter, Ursa Major, Butter Elixir, Herbivore Botanicals, and MCMC Fragrance. For makeup I love Ilia, Acure, Mineral Fusion, W3LL People, and RMS Beauty. In terms of my routine, I get monthly facials and a manicure and pedicure every two weeks. I use that time to catch up on my backlog of New Yorker issues, read articles, or just to scroll through Instagram, which I try not to do when I’m with Rilo. I take showers with Rilo and I’ll do a Herbivore body scrub or Goop’s Instant Facial while we’re playing in the shower. I also subscribe to Sakara’s plant-based meals, eat their beauty and probiotic chocolates, and drink their chlorophyll water before bed. I drink a ton of matcha every day. I believe food is medicine, but it’s probably 1/3 placebo, 1/3 ceremonial, and 1/3 actually doing anything for me. It’s just routine and fun at this point."">

“多年来，我一直在我工作的杂志的美容用品柜里免费使用化妆品，现在我对干净的美充满了热情。在我怀孕之前，我把所有的化妆品和清洁用品都扔了。这是非常自由的。在出售给妇女和青少年的产品中，有毒化学物质的数量惊人，现在我做了大量的研究，或者查看了EWG的咆哮。我最喜欢的产品包括酿造葡萄酒的人的女儿那北斗星那黄油长生不老药那食草动物植物,获得香味．我喜欢化妆髂骨那治愈那矿物融合那W3LL人,RMS美．就我的日常工作而言，我每月做一次面部护理，每两周做一次美甲和足疗。我用这段时间来赶我积压的工作《纽约客》我和里洛在一起的时候尽量不这么做。我和里洛一起洗澡，我会食草动物身体磨砂膏或笨蛋的即时面部而我们正在玩在淋浴。我还订阅Sakara的植物性食物睡觉前喝些含有叶绿素的水。我每天喝一吨抹茶。我相信食物就是药物，但可能有三分之一是安慰剂，三分之一是仪式，还有三分之一是真的为我做了什么。在这一点上，这只是例行公事和乐趣。”

Laura wears a Maje dress. Rilo wears Molo.">

“编写出这一切听起来像很多的放纵魆魆的，但它有助于保持我最快乐的，内容和自己的当前版本，也许这将帮助别人，抑郁运行在我的家庭，所以我对积极争取my genes through a rotation of yoga, acupuncture, regular exercise, getting time outside, and making sure I see friends regularly. I also see a chiropractor once a month, every now and then I’ll go to a sound bath meditation with a friend, and I eat a predominantly plant-based diet."

劳拉穿Maje裙子。riilo wearsMolo．

Laura wears a Rejina Pyo yellow dress. Rilo wears a Molo onesie.">

"I am very lucky to have an incredibly supportive partner who values my 'me time' as much as I do. We take turns making sure we each have enough alone time to be creatively fulfilled and have time to ourselves. He’ll walk our son and dog in the mornings while I work out. He’s a painter, so his schedule is flexible, like mine. He’ll come home from his art studio on nights I want to meet a girlfriend for dinner, and on other nights, he’ll work late painting while I’m at home. It’s important that I do things for myself so that I am a more present and fulfilled mother."

劳拉穿Rejina民众黄色连衣裙。Rilo戴着Moloonesie。

“我绝对想为我的孩子树立一个强有力的榜样。我在不断学习和进步。我会犯很多错误，但我爱我自己，尽量不苛责自己。时不时地，我可能会因为和AT&T或类似的公司通话而感到沮丧，我会感觉很糟糕。它会发生!”

"Nothing is promised and I take nothing in my life for granted. Right now it’s a very beautiful time and I hope it continues. I’d love if we sold our book into a TV show this year. I want to write more stories and I’d love to give Rilo another sibling, but I am hesitant to say those things out loud."

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