妈妈。

"We told our friend, Bob Callan, who is a real estate agent and who grew up in St. Francis Wood, that one day when things settled down we might want to move there. A few weeks later he called me, 'I found the perfect house for you.' I said I wasn’t ready and I wasn’t, but my husband Pat said 'Let’s just look.' Well, the rest is history. We walked into the home and I instantly knew it was our home—it was as if I had always lived there. Then, I overheard the agent telling the people ahead of us that the owners were the second owners ever and they had three sons. I didn’t want to like the house. I wasn’t ready, life was hectic and I couldn’t even fathom all of the elements to put together to move, but the house called me. I loved every room, loved every detail and I felt so at home there immediately. The housing market was still low and we put an offer in that was originally rejected, but then the original buyers withdrew their offer and ours was accepted."

"I don’t have any idea how we did that all at once, it was an intense, intense time, but I am so grateful we moved here with Kevin and when he was healthier. It is a peaceful home and it is a special place to me." ">

“我们不打算搬家，但在2012年底，当我儿子凯文(Kevin)的病情出现短暂缓解时，这栋房子出现了。我们认为附近的和平与安静会有助于他的康复。我们多年前居住的大公路变得非常繁忙。对于这个繁荣的社区来说，这是一个奇妙的变化，但考虑到我们自己对安静和治愈空间的渴望，当与凯文的康复结合在一起时，这几乎是疯狂的。”

“我们的朋友鲍勃·卡兰(Bob Callan)是一名房地产经纪人，在圣弗朗西斯伍德长大，我们告诉他，有一天当事情安定下来时，我们可能想搬到那里去。几个星期后，他打电话给我说:“我为你找到了一所完美的房子。”我说我还没准备好，我也没准备好，但我丈夫帕特说:“我们看看吧。”好吧，剩下的都是历史了。我们走进那所房子，我立刻知道那就是我们的家——就好像我一直住在那里一样。然后，我无意中听到经纪人对我们前面的人说，房主是他们的第二个房主，他们有三个儿子。我不想喜欢这房子。我还没有准备好，生活是忙碌的，我甚至不能理解所有的元素放在一起搬家，但房子呼唤我。我喜欢每一个房间，喜欢每一个细节，立刻就有了家的感觉。当时房地产市场仍然低迷，我们提出的报价最初被拒绝了，但后来原来的买家收回了他们的报价，我们的报价被接受了。”

“我不知道我们是怎么一下子做到的，那是一段非常紧张的时间，但我很感激我们和凯文一起搬到这里，在他更健康的时候。这是一个宁静的家，对我来说是一个特别的地方。”

Buffy wears vintage Levi’s from General Store. Conor and Dylan wear Nike.">

“我们的房子是由Henry Gutterson在1922年建造的，当时预计会有新的西门隧道连接西侧和市中心。我们的房子是在汽车被频繁使用之前建造的，所以车库是事后才建的，而不是在车库上面盖房子。”

巴菲穿的是来自一般商店。 康纳和迪伦穿着耐克．

“我喜欢把我们生活故事的元素带入我们的空间，并庆祝和记住它们。这使得空间特别兼收并蓄，海滩和丰富多彩。”

Georgia Hodges, Mona Marcos, Emily Fromm, Michelle Wilson, John Musgrove, and Kevin Mirsky to name a few. These are all people I know, and I love having their work in my home. I also love the Surf Theater posters from the wonderful couple at 3Fish. Annie and Eric are fantastic. I remember the Surf Theater—although the posters I chose are from before my time. They evoke a sense of glamour from a period of time for me when Ocean Beach had its own movie theater and it showed all these artsy films and we could walk there on our own and eat popcorn and disappear from the beach fog into a movie. I had the privilege of enjoying the last days of the Surf Theater on Irving Street (same block as Hook Fish) right before it closed. I would love to get a movie theater back in the Sunset, but we are so lucky to have the Balboa."">

“嗯，我家里的每样东西都是我最喜欢的。这就是我爱我的房子的原因——它很私人。例如，我喜欢艺术。外面的日落一直是艺术家的家，我认为海滩带来并吸引了创意、自由思想家和美丽。你可以在我的墙上看到这个原创作品格鲁吉亚霍奇斯，莫娜马科斯，艾米丽·弗洛姆，米歇尔·威尔逊，约翰Musgrove,凯文·米尔斯基举几个例子。这些都是我认识的人，我喜欢把他们的作品放在家里。我也喜欢冲浪剧院这对新人的海报三个鱼．安妮和埃里克都很棒。我记得冲浪剧院——尽管我选择的海报是我出生之前的。对我来说，它们唤起了一段时间的魅力，当时海洋海滩有自己的电影院，放映所有这些艺术电影，我们可以自己走到那里，吃爆米花，从海滩的雾中消失，看电影。我有幸享受了欧文街(Irving Street)冲浪剧院(Surf Theater)最后几天的演出钩鱼)就在关门前。我很想在日落区再开个电影院，但我们很幸运能有巴波亚．＂

“我们的房子是一个家，我们的孩子在每个房间都感到非常舒适。我的孩子们在每个房间都留下了他们的印记。随着他们年龄的增长，这意味着东西会越来越少，但虽然我不再捡小块的乐高积木、磁砖或火车轨道，我仍然会捡球、鞋、运动衫、朋友的运动衫，当然还有他们可爱的袜子或任何留下痕迹的东西。”

“我喜欢这座城市的开放、活力和创新。我总是说，如果我不是出生在旧金山，我就搬到这里来了。我理解人们为什么搬到这里来，我只是很幸运地出生在这里。创意人才在旧金山蓬勃发展，因为我们是一个如此开放和欢迎的地方。这是创新发生的地方，这是所有媒介的艺术家创作的地方，这是一个充满以打破思维定势而自豪的人物的城市。我们也有点肾上腺素上瘾，因为我们从一开始就处于繁荣和萧条的循环中——淘金热、嬉皮士、科技迷、繁荣、萧条、繁荣、萧条——所有这些都是在即将来临的地震的背景下发生的。这座城市为自己的变化和进化而自豪，有时还会重建。所以，对我的孩子来说，在这种开放的氛围中成长是一份礼物。这是一份巨大的礼物，我每天都在感激。”

"And then there’s Pat’s family, who are also very, very deeply entrenched in San Francisco. Pat is one of seven kids and his siblings and their spouses all live in the Sunset District. All of this adds up in a way that I have 29 nieces and nephews in the Sunset District, and my kids are blessed with a tribe of cousins. And cousin’s cousins are all in S.F., too, so it's exponential. It is so amazing to have this kind of 'small town' family and community in a city. But, San Francisco is a small city, for sure, and, it gets a lot smaller when you have stayed put for so long and then marry someone who is from here, too. Your base expands. This is not to mention all of our friends who become like a web of extended family over generations. It is unique and extremely special."">

“这是一段漫长而详细的历史。我的四个祖父母中有三个移民到美国，在旧金山定居，后来来到日落区。我的外祖母基蒂·奥谢(Kitty O 'Shea)是第一代美国人，她出生在教会区，父母是爱尔兰人，后来搬到了日落区。我的外祖父在9岁的时候和他的母亲从西西里岛来到这里，在那里他们与我祖父的父亲和他的兄弟团聚，他的兄弟先来了。所以，在我妈妈这边，我所有的曾祖父母最后也都住在旧金山。在我父亲这边，他的父母从爱尔兰分开来到这里，在教会区KRB相遇，那是一个舞厅，很多爱尔兰人的婚姻就是在那里开始的。我的父母是在圣塞西莉亚小学四年级时认识的，他们在同一个教室里读了整个文法学校。他们1969年结婚，1979年离婚。我两边的叔叔阿姨大部分都上过这所语法学校，这所学校和我结婚的家庭教堂有关。”

“还有帕特的家人，他们在旧金山也非常非常根深蒂固。帕特是七个孩子中的一个，他的兄弟姐妹和他们的配偶都住在日落区。所有这些加起来，我在日落区有29个侄女和侄子，我的孩子们很幸运有一群表亲。表姐的表姐也都在旧金山，所以是指数级的。在城市里有这样的“小镇”家庭和社区真是太棒了。但是，旧金山是一个小城市，当然，当你在一个地方呆了这么久，然后嫁给一个来自这里的人，它会变得小很多。你的基地扩张了。更不用说我们所有的朋友，他们就像一个大家庭一样代代相传。它是独一无二的，非常特别。”

“我会的，但我不认为这会发生，因为我对我现在的工作很满意。我绝对会住在沿海地区。我最近很喜欢去瓦哈卡——我在那里买了一些特别棒的咖啡和卡斯卡拉——我可以想象自己一年中有一段时间住在那里，如果这在我的生活中是可行的。我的孩子还很小，我没有看到这种表现，至少暂时没有。我还可以想象自己梦想着在法国南部定居——那不是很有趣吗?但是，说实话，我对我现在的工作很满意。”

"Besides hanging out at the Java Beach cafes, I love Judahlicious for a yummy Acai bowl or a fresh squeezed juice. Noriega Produce has fed my family healthy, clean, and organic food for decades—it has such a great, succinct grocery selection. Establish on Noriega Street is the best for picking up unique house items, like my Peruvian pillows and buying Pat an awesome Pendleton that he loves. All the plants in my house from there. The owner, Erica, has such great instincts on items and she is always switching things up, so you have to check it out regularly. She also offers me moral support on keeping my plants alive—as this is not intuitive to me. One of my absolute favorite places is Judah St. Clinic. Nick is the best chiropractor around and such a sweet and gentle soul. Then, there’s 3Fish and the Great Highway Gallery. The newer places that have hit the neighborhood are so fun to have, such as Hook Fish. I am so happy we have a fish place in our coastal community; it filled a need in an awesome, sustainable, creative way. And the staff is super friendly. The new cocktail bar, White Cap, is so fun, although I don’t cocktail much. I don’t know how they made it feel so down home, but you can go in there and hang out and it is intimate and friendly and the dog-vibe is spot on. It reminds me of places on the coast of Oaxaca where the dogs roam free but are so chill and cool you want to get to know them. Of course, Outerlands is always special, and I love seeing a matinee at the Balboa movie theater—it's such a treasure." ">

“我喜欢海洋海滩。我喜欢雷鸣般的海浪，沙丘，还有咸咸的空气。我喜欢海洋海滩的坚韧和热情。铁锈其实可以很漂亮。我也喜欢金门公园的郁郁葱葱。我喜欢马球场、马厩和飞鱼池塘。”

“除了在那里闲逛Java海滩咖啡馆，我喜欢Judahlicious来一碗美味的巴西莓或者鲜榨果汁诺列加生产几十年来，它一直为我的家人提供健康、干净、有机的食物——它有如此伟大、简洁的杂货店选择。建立在诺列加街是挑选独特家居用品的最佳地点，比如我的秘鲁枕头，给帕特买他喜欢的很棒的彭德尔顿。我房子里所有的植物都是从那里来的。店主埃丽卡对物品有很好的直觉，她总是在更换东西，所以你必须定期检查。她还在让我的植物存活方面给予我精神上的支持——因为这对我来说并不直观。我最喜欢的地方之一是犹大街诊所．尼克是最好的脊椎按摩师，他的灵魂是那么的甜美和温柔。然后,有三个鱼和高速公路画廊．附近的新地方很有趣，比如钩鱼．我很高兴在我们的沿海社区有一家养鱼店;它以一种令人惊叹的、可持续的、创造性的方式满足了需求。工作人员非常友好。新的鸡尾酒吧，白色的帽子虽然我不怎么喝鸡尾酒，但它很有趣。我不知道他们是怎么把它弄得这么像家的，但你可以进去，在那里闲逛，那里很亲密，很友好，狗的氛围很到位。这让我想起了瓦哈卡海岸的一些地方，那里的狗可以自由自在地闲逛，但它们又冷又酷，让人想去了解它们。当然,Outerlands它总是很特别，我喜欢在巴波亚电影院——真是个宝藏。”

“康纳12岁，迪伦9岁。”

“2012年5月12日，凯文在我们去参加生日派对的路上晕倒了。当他说他感觉不舒服，似乎要呕吐时，我们把车停了下来，然后他就晕倒了。那天是星期六，日程排得满满的:先是一个生日派对，然后他要去斯坦福踢一场足球赛。当他倒下时，我们以最快的速度开车去加州街的CPMC急诊室。他恢复了意识，但有些不对劲。他们赶紧给他做了CT扫描，医生几乎马上就告诉我，他们在他的大脑里发现了一个肿块。这是医生对肿瘤的说法。这太令人震惊了。我完全没有预料到这一点，我完全被这个消息弄糊涂了。我没有太多时间思考，因为我们正坐在救护车上，沿着280号公路赶往斯坦福大学的露西尔·帕卡德医院，准备进行一个8小时的脑部手术。”

凯文当时8岁。我一直对凯文很坦诚。他是一个非常老的灵魂。他几乎比我更了解情况。但我的想法是:把它分解成小步骤。现在我们需要手术，现在我们需要化疗，现在我们需要另一个手术。我没有把注意力集中在大局上，而是专注于如何度过这一天，专注于眼前的事情。我向他承诺，我会陪在他的每一步，他永远不会孤单，这是真的，在他生病的整个过程中，我都是这么说的。”

“这很难随便谈论。我们从家人、朋友、邻居和社区得到的帮助是如此令人感动，难以用语言来描述。我们是一个社区的一部分，这个社区向我们伸出援手，无论距离近或远，他们都爱着我们，当我们度过最难以形容的痛苦和损失时。凯文的葬礼挤满了圣加布里埃尔教堂，整个街区的人都排起了长队来悼念我们。我认为说有1000多人在那里并不夸张。事实上，可能更多。这次出席是一个直观的提醒，在他生病的整个时间里，我们在每个人的思想、祈祷和行动中所占据的位置。我们非常幸运，有一群爱我们、爱凯文的人支持我们。”

“看到你的孩子真实、深刻、可怕地遭受痛苦，这违背了作为母亲的原则。作为母亲，我们的本能是保护和养育孩子。从我做母亲的第一天起，我就有这种本能。所以，当痛苦变得如此巨大时，作为一个母亲，我停了下来。我有一个很棒的朋友，她像仙女教母一样出现在我门口。她在临终关怀医院当了很多年的护士，她来到这里，陪伴着我，用别人无法做到的方式帮助我。她把她独特的礼物带给了我，给了凯文，有一天她对我说:“我相信有比死亡更糟糕的事情。”它是如此温柔，如此模糊，但又如此难以置信地深刻，她描述了我的灵魂在与之搏斗的东西。对我来说，这意味着凯文的痛苦程度真的比死亡还要严重。这并不意味着有什么改变。 There wasn’t a plug to unplug or anything I could change. But, it meant that his imminent death might be a relief to his poor body that was badgered by the effects of the brain tumor. It meant that death isn’t a failure. It is an unbelievable aching loss that is felt every moment of every day, but it isn’t failure. I wanted Kevin’s complete healing. I wanted him to go back to playing, laughing, and running around. I didn’t want him to suffer every moment of his life. But, again, that wasn’t up to me. I did not have any say in that. It was just where my thoughts started to shift and, to be honest, it was really, really, really late for me when that shift happened."

“我的注意力放在凯文身上，陪在他身边，这支撑了我。我看着他的眼睛说:‘我不会离开你的。我可以向你保证，你不会独自面对这一切。”我遵守了这个承诺，这个承诺支撑着我和他。我知道他看着我是为了他的安全感，我打算给他安全感。我能给他的东西太少了，这是我能做的最起码的事。现在回想起来，我真的不知道我是怎么做到的，但我知道我这么做是为了凯文，因为这是我所能付出的一切。”

“康纳6岁，迪伦快4岁了。”

"Maybe this sounds crazy. I hope no mother out there has to get to this low of a point, but this thought that was Kevin’s voice shaped my reaction to his death. I realized that Conor and Dylan were at the very beginning of their lives. Everything was in front of them. And I realized I wanted them to live. In fact, I wanted them to thrive. And I knew I had to model this for Conor and Dylan. I had to show them. So, I went to the funeral. I didn’t drive away. And I began to slowly rebuild and to build. As a mother, I can honestly say, that all of my kids have made me a better and stronger person than I would have been without them."

"We honor Kevin by living and moving forward and by remembering him. In the weeks and months after Kevin’s death, we did this by physically moving, by playing basketball, by swimming in the ocean, by playing. Our way of honoring him morphs, but he is ever present with us." ">

“凯文去世没几天，当我准备去参加他的葬礼时，我想要逃跑。我真的很想开车沿着海岸离开。我不想在最痛苦的时候面对1000多人。我的家里挤满了等我的家人。我们落后于计划。我想打开我衣柜的窗户，把我的房子放大到我的车，然后开车离开。但是，突然间，我听到了一个不是我的想法，那是凯文的想法，它很清楚地说，‘康纳和迪伦会看你做什么，而不是你说什么。’”

“也许这听起来很疯狂。我希望没有母亲会沦落到这种地步，但凯文的声音塑造了我对他死的反应。我意识到康纳和迪伦才刚刚开始他们的生活。一切都在他们面前。我意识到我想让他们活下去。事实上，我希望他们茁壮成长。我知道我必须为康纳和迪伦做这个模型。我必须给他们看。所以，我去了葬礼。我没有开车离开。 And I began to slowly rebuild and to build. As a mother, I can honestly say, that all of my kids have made me a better and stronger person than I would have been without them."

“我们用生活和前进来纪念凯文，用怀念他来纪念他。在凯文死后的几周或几个月里，我们通过身体活动、打篮球、在海里游泳、玩耍来做到这一点。我们纪念他的方式千变万化，但他始终与我们同在。”

“凯文死后，我们的婚姻最终变得更加牢固。帕特和我在有孩子之前已经在一起生活了很长一段时间，我们一起工作，一起玩耍，一起长大成人。我们一直有很深的感情。悲伤的微妙之处在于每个人处理悲伤的方式都不一样。我们学会了如何以及何时给对方空间，何时向前一步——这是一场舞蹈。我们对共同的损失有一种真正的，深刻的，心灵上的理解，只有我们两个人在这个层面上知道。帕特理解我的损失，我也理解他的损失，这很快就把事情浓缩到了最重要的元素:爱。当我看着他的时候，我看到了凯文的一部分，他还在地球上，他是我多年前爱上的那个人，这种感觉太甜蜜了。我们成长，我们悲伤，我们进化，我们变得更加亲密，更加理解彼此的损失。”

“我觉得我很快就有了观点，这让我对很多事情都更放松了。我也意识到我对生活的控制是如此之少，这让我感到些许自由。我非常非常感激我能做这些了不起的孩子的妈妈。这种感激提炼出什么是重要的，什么是不重要的。我记得肿瘤科病房里有母亲抱着生病的孩子，我知道她们的痛苦，我知道我的担心与那种绝望相比是奢侈的。一旦你以此为标准来衡量，事情就会迅速变得真实。感激之情总是扎根人心的，我仍然有很多值得感激的地方。”

"I realized that I need my life to have meaning above all. I realized that being creative nourishes me in a way that I need and in a way that I can’t live without."">

“我理解痛苦，我对受苦的人感同身受。我也意识到我不知道人们的生活中发生了什么，这让我对人们非常敏感和宽容。我天生是一个有同理心的人，但这让我变得更加发自内心。”

“我意识到，我最重要的是要让我的生活有意义。我意识到，创造性在某种程度上滋养了我，这是我所需要的，也是我生活中不可或缺的。”

"For a mother facing the death of a child, I can only say I stand with you. You are not alone. You can make it through, but it won’t be easy. It won’t be easy. You already know that it won’t be easy. Pick very small goals, be proud of yourself when you achieve them and, above all, be kind to yourself. Get showered and dressed in the morning even if you want to go back to bed afterwards. Sleep with the lights on until you don’t. Be gentle on yourself and find some reason to live and focus on that. Then find another and another."">

“严重疾病和死亡之间的鸿沟是巨大的。一个身患重病的孩子的母亲不想和我说话。我知道。我明白了。我是每个母亲最可怕的噩梦。病得很重，还是有希望的。坚持这个希望。”

“作为一个面对孩子死亡的母亲，我只能说我和你站在一起。你并不孤单。你可以挺过去，但并不容易。这并不容易。你已经知道这并不容易。选择一个非常小的目标，当你实现它们时为自己感到骄傲，最重要的是，对自己好一点。早上洗澡穿好衣服，即使你事后想回去睡觉。开着灯睡觉，直到你睡不着为止。温柔地对待自己，找一些生活的理由，并专注于此。然后再找一个又一个。”

“要有延展性，带上食物，不要带任何私人恩怨。她可能会说‘我不需要帮助。我不需要帮助。”好的，没问题。然后你说我要去送点东西，我不需要留下来了。我可以把它放在门口。或者我可以进来。我有那么多家人和朋友向我伸出援手。我不知道怎么指挥他们。你完全迷失了方向，提前为两天后的访问做计划是不可理解的。 The clock changes. Time is different. Two days away is unknown, unguaranteed, and it gets you real present fast. I didn’t know what I needed until all of a sudden I did."

Lady Falcon Coffee Club started as part daydream, part manifesto during the period of time that Kevin was sick. I would pick it up and put it down and there was no sense of reality to it, no pressure, no expectations. I was so overwhelmed with life. We were in and out of hospitals, in and out of treatments and everyday was filled with terror. Deep, deep, soul-shaking terror. One of the things I did to escape the fear and find a happy place was to daydream and doodle. One daydream gave way to another and soon I was creating a coffee company, but not a real one, or so I thought. I spent a lot of time thinking about the name. I knew I wanted to pay respect to the legends in Ocean Beach before me. I enjoy studying history, and the Ocean Beach neighborhood has fascinated me for the wild and eclectic types that it consistently attracts. From my years out at Ocean Beach, I used to talk to the grandchildren of people from Carville. Carville was an impromptu neighborhood of abandoned streetcars on Judah Street that became a mecca for bohemians, artists, and writers in the 1880s when the neighborhood was a big sand dune still unpaved. The Falcon Ladies Bicycling Club was one of the first cars in the bunch and helped shape the freethinker legend of Carville. I knew a little about these women, and then I read more and more to find out what rebels they were, and how women’s bicycling clubs across the U.S. and Western Europe helped form the suffragette movement. When visualizing the Lady Falcon Coffee Club name, I kept the idea of a club. It is a club that anyone can belong to and we all just enjoy good coffee and good company. In putting Lady first, I consciously decided to appoint ourselves nobility in the same way that jazz legends like Duke Ellington did in their time and in the same way that hip hop artists do today. Street credibility becomes royalty when you are shifting the paradigm of givens and opening up a new definition of what is regal."

"I had been on my coffee journey for years before Kevin was sick. As Kevin got sicker and sicker, he would sleep longer and longer and I daydreamed more. And Lady Falcon began unfolding and it was such a good pure place to escape to. It was never too heavy and not stressful, but just fun. It was a freestyle jam about what I wanted in a coffee company and what I didn’t. I started to let myself drop all the rules I thought I had to follow to excel at specialty coffee. It was a process of saying no to the brown bags (but everyone has brown bags) and no to the beards and no to the pretension and no to the lumberjack shirts. No because they didn’t fit me. I really never thought I would do anything with Lady Falcon. I thought it was a meditative exercise and truthfully that was enough."">

＂猎鹰夫人咖啡俱乐部在凯文生病的那段时间里，这部分是白日梦，部分是宣言。我拿起它，放下它，没有真实感，没有压力，没有期望。我被生活淹没了。我们进进出出医院，接受治疗，每天都充满了恐惧。深深的，深深的，震撼灵魂的恐惧。为了摆脱恐惧，找到一个快乐的地方，我做的一件事就是做白日梦和涂鸦。一个白日梦变成了另一个白日梦，很快我就创建了一家咖啡公司，但不是一家真正的公司，至少我是这么认为的。我花了很多时间想这个名字。我知道我想向我之前在海洋海滩的传奇人物致敬。我喜欢学习历史，海洋海滩社区一直吸引着我，因为它充满野性和不拘一格。 From my years out at Ocean Beach, I used to talk to the grandchildren of people from Carville. Carville was an impromptu neighborhood of abandoned streetcars on Judah Street that became a mecca for bohemians, artists, and writers in the 1880s when the neighborhood was a big sand dune still unpaved. The Falcon Ladies Bicycling Club was one of the first cars in the bunch and helped shape the freethinker legend of Carville. I knew a little about these women, and then I read more and more to find out what rebels they were, and how women’s bicycling clubs across the U.S. and Western Europe helped form the suffragette movement. When visualizing the Lady Falcon Coffee Club name, I kept the idea of a club. It is a club that anyone can belong to and we all just enjoy good coffee and good company. In putting Lady first, I consciously decided to appoint ourselves nobility in the same way that jazz legends like Duke Ellington did in their time and in the same way that hip hop artists do today. Street credibility becomes royalty when you are shifting the paradigm of givens and opening up a new definition of what is regal."

“在凯文生病之前，我已经踏上了喝咖啡的旅程。凯文病得越来越重，他睡得越来越久，我做的白日梦也越来越多。然后福尔肯夫人开始展开，这是一个可以逃避的纯洁的好地方。它从来没有太沉重，没有压力，只是乐趣。这是一场关于我在咖啡公司想要什么和不想要什么的即兴即兴表演。我开始让自己放弃所有我认为我必须遵守的规则，以成为优秀的特色咖啡。这是一个对棕色袋子说“不”的过程(但每个人都有棕色袋子)，对胡子说“不”，对自负说“不”，对伐木工人衬衫说“不”。不，因为它们不适合我。我从没想过我会和福尔肯女士一起。我以为这是一种冥想练习，说实话，这就足够了。”

Buffy wears a Doen top. ">

“我不认为这是创业，相反，我认为这是一个创意项目。我知道在凯文去世后的日子里，我需要有创造力。一个创意项目让位于另一个创意项目，它们是联系在一起的，但我并没有立即把它们联系在一起。首先，我喜欢烘焙咖啡，所以我认为我需要花时间做一些我喜欢的事情。烤咖啡是一种孤独和冥想的过程，它需要你在短时间内全神贯注，这对我那奔忙和悲伤的心灵来说是一种完美的慰藉。所以，凯文死后，我做了越来越多的咖啡烘焙实验，让自己沉浸在对烘焙的热爱中。我会做各种各样的烤肉，尝啊尝啊，尝啊。”

巴菲穿着一件多恩上面。

"From the point at which I purchased the truck to the point at which it was complete was likely about two years, but active build-out was about a total of 18 months. For the first 6 months, I was on the waitlist with Chris and Mike at Hellcam. This is a totally underground workshop, with no name on their shop and certainly no website, in the shadow of the Burning Man compound of artists in West Oakland. They are an old school group and work only on cars pre-1970. Truth be told, I was in no hurry. But, when my turn came, I was ready. Chris and Mike had never built a coffee truck and, obviously neither had I, but we met every week and took it step by step and it was a long, deliberate process filled with surprises in the good hands of these amazing craftsmen. One day we decided we needed more height, light, and air so we sawed off the top of the truck, created metal ribs, and installed vintage VW camper bus windows all around the top and re-welded it together. This really made the truck unique and one of a kind and created a completely transformative workspace for us. It also made the truck into a piece of art. In the end, the truck actually resembles some of the old streetcars of Carville where the Falcon Ladies Bicycling club originated—which is amazing because it is sheer serendipity."

"Throughout the build-out, I didn’t even know for certain this was going to be Lady Falcon. I just let the project unfold. Of course, I became great friends with Chris and Mike and I had shown them the sketches of Lady Falcon and I think I even had a sticker made and Chris turned to me and said something like 'you realize this is Lady Falcon, right?' I didn’t, actually. I was scared and protective. I wanted Lady Falcon to be an ideal not a reality. I was hesitant and I still didn’t give in, but a little part of my brain kept thinking—if even these really masculine men are into Lady Falcon, maybe it is relatable."

"In the end, the truck was the beginning of the physical manifestation of the Lady Falcon Coffee Club and it was an authentic and creative way for me to be in the coffee world. I worked on the signature pink coffee bags for over two years, scratching countless designs. Over and over again, the creative process saved me, restored me, inspired me, and kept me moving forward." ">

“我的烘焙机放在伯克利我朋友的房子里，我在那里的停车场偶然发现了我们1948年的GMC面包车。随着时间的推移，我重新考虑了几年前的一个想法:一个移动咖啡吧。我一直以为会是一辆大众面包车，但大众巴士不够大。我意识到GMC的尺寸要大得多，我变得非常兴奋。我能看到这辆卡车最原始的样子是多么漂亮——它被打得很烂，没有轮胎，也跑不动了，但是，她是一个新的经典。GMC面包车就是我想要的一切。它足够大，但不是很大，可以舒适地容纳咖啡师，以及一台浓缩咖啡机，啤酒机和冰箱。”

“从我购买这辆卡车到它完成可能需要两年的时间，但活跃的扩建总共花了大约18个月。在最初的6个月里，我和克里斯，迈克一起在地狱摄像头的候补名单上。这是一个完全的地下工作室，他们的商店上没有名字，当然也没有网站，在西奥克兰的艺术家们的火人节的阴影下。他们是一个老式的小组，只在1970年以前的汽车上工作。说实话，我并不着急。但是，轮到我的时候，我已经准备好了。克里斯和迈克从来没有做过咖啡车，显然我也没有，但我们每周都见面，一步一步地做，这是一个漫长而深思熟虑的过程，在这些神奇的工匠的巧手下充满了惊喜。有一天，我们决定需要更多的高度、光线和空气，所以我们锯掉了卡车的顶部，制造了金属肋骨，在顶部周围安装了老式的大众露营车窗户，然后重新焊接在一起。这真的使卡车独一无二，为我们创造了一个完全变革的工作空间。这也让这辆卡车成为了一件艺术品。 In the end, the truck actually resembles some of the old streetcars of Carville where the Falcon Ladies Bicycling club originated—which is amazing because it is sheer serendipity."

“在整个建造过程中，我甚至不确定这将是猎鹰夫人。我只是让项目展开。当然，我和克里斯和迈克成了好朋友，我给他们看了福尔肯女士的草图，我想我甚至做了一个贴纸，克里斯转向我说，“你知道这是福尔肯女士，对吧?”事实上，我没有。我很害怕，很保护自己。我希望福尔肯夫人是一个理想而不是现实。我很犹豫，但我仍然没有屈服，但我的大脑中有一部分一直在想——如果这些真正有男子气概的男人都喜欢猎鹰女士，也许这是有意义的。”

“最终，卡车是人类的物理表现形式的开始猎鹰夫人咖啡俱乐部对我来说，这是一种真实而有创意的方式，让我置身于咖啡世界。我花了两年多的时间设计这个标志性的粉色咖啡包，画了无数个图案。一次又一次，创作的过程拯救了我，恢复了我，激励了我，让我不断前进。”

“我的父母在旧金山长大，成年时，爱之夏席卷了这座城市，他们与嬉皮士运动的许多元素都有联系，尤其是对父母移民观点的反抗。他们在伯克利结婚，搬到了诺伊谷，我在那里一直住到12岁。这是一座1906年以前的维多利亚式住宅，又高又窄，充满了美丽和光明。正如我之前提到的，我生命中的每个周末都是和我的外祖父母一起在他们位于日落大道的家里度过的，或者用我父母的话说就是“大道”。高中时，父母离婚后很久，他们各自搬回了日落酒店。我一直觉得这是个有趣的注脚。我想离开旧金山去上大学，于是我去了马萨诸塞州北安普顿的史密斯学院。我是第一个离家上大学的人，我西西里的祖父欣喜若狂。“你为什么要去那么远的地方?”这个街区就有一所大学(SFSU)。” He was so family oriented and so practical. I knew it was from a place of love. But, I wanted out as most 18 year olds do—to go out and see the world far away from my family. The interesting element for me was that I had no family on the East Coast, no safety net. This was a tremendous experience that I highly recommend. It would be hard to replicate today with cell phones. I double majored in Government and Art History. I loved Art History, but for some reason thought it wasn’t practical and chose to major in Government. I took so many Art History classes that I accidentally ended up with a double major. And I explored the entire East Coast by car and bus every weekend, and drove cross country seven times with many funny stories. After graduating from Smith, I worked for Tony Serra on a death penalty case, on a Native American case, and later for Congressman Tom Lantos. I traveled extensively throughout Europe, the Middle East, and Central America. Pat and I got married right before I went to get my Masters in Political Science at Queen’s University in Belfast, where I studied Comparative Ethnic Conflict with a case study in the Northern Irish peace process. This was the first year of the Good Friday Peace Agreement and it was a magical time to be in Belfast, and it was also a magical honeymoon year. We traveled every weekend throughout Europe. Ryan Air had just launched, so we could go to Paris or Venice or Spain or Rome for $40. And we did. After graduating, I was ready to return to San Francisco."

Java Beach in 1993 with an empty briefcase and a big dream, and when we returned to S.F., there was a lot of work to be done at Java Beach. I helped while I took many different positions trying to find my calling: I worked for a tech company, I worked for the State of California reinvestigating death penalty cases, taught at City College, worked on a film about the Irish peace process and the families who grieved, and wrote about the peace process. It was a fun and exciting time, trying to figure out what I wanted to do with my life. Some of these jobs were short because I treated my career like speed dating. If I thought they weren’t a long term fit, I quit and moved onto the next position. I did all this while re-building Java Beach with Pat. In 2001, Pat’s original business partner was leaving. I remember Pat saying to me, 'Will you be my business partner?' which hadn’t occurred to me, but the next thing I knew it was official. But, it didn’t immediately change my career trajectory. Once we finished rebuilding Java Beach, we began rebuilding the neighborhood. We brought our family, friends and neighbors, and local officials together to build a park, and in the process we began rebuilding a neighborhood. My career life didn’t change much until I had my second son. With my first son, Kevin, I was still working, writing, and managing elements of Java Beach on the side. But, when Conor arrived, I realized that in order to mother the way I wanted to, I had to completely be my own boss. It was about timing, it wasn’t about working. I had to work when they were asleep or at night or when Pat would come home or when my family could help out. I had to be in charge of my time. And quickly I started opening more cafes with Pat. We opened Java Beach at the Zoo in 2008 with Kevin and Conor in tow. They were part of the whole process. I had no nanny, which is so crazy to think of, and I don’t necessarily recommend it. I was potty training Conor right before we opened. I remember shopping for ovens at a big restaurant showroom and hearing 'pee, pee' and sprinting across the showroom to the bathroom and racing him to the toilet. I made it, that time. Then, I bought a vintage Probat coffee roaster in 2009 and officially began my tactile coffee roasting exploration. My third son, Dylan, arrived in 2009, too. Then, we opened Beachside Coffee Bar & Kitchen in 2011. And we were slated to open another location. It was truly surreal. But, this was what I wanted at that time. I wanted a job that I could bring my kids along to." ">

帕特开口了Java海滩1993年，我们带着一个空公文包和一个伟大的梦想回到旧金山，当我们回到爪哇海滩时，有很多工作要做。我做了很多不同的工作，试图找到自己的使命:我为一家科技公司工作，我为加利福尼亚州重新调查死刑案件工作，我在城市学院教书，我参与了一部关于爱尔兰和平进程和悲痛家庭的电影，我还写了关于和平进程的文章。那是一段有趣而令人兴奋的时光，试图弄清楚我想要做什么。其中一些工作时间很短，因为我把自己的职业生涯当成闪电约会。如果我认为他们不适合我长期工作，我就辞职，转投下一个职位。我是在和帕特重建爪哇海滩的时候做这些事的。2001年，帕特原来的生意伙伴离开了。我记得帕特对我说，‘你愿意做我的商业伙伴吗?我还没想过，但接下来我就知道这是正式的了。但是，这并没有立即改变我的职业轨迹。 Once we finished rebuilding Java Beach, we began rebuilding the neighborhood. We brought our family, friends and neighbors, and local officials together to build a park, and in the process we began rebuilding a neighborhood. My career life didn’t change much until I had my second son. With my first son, Kevin, I was still working, writing, and managing elements of Java Beach on the side. But, when Conor arrived, I realized that in order to mother the way I wanted to, I had to completely be my own boss. It was about timing, it wasn’t about working. I had to work when they were asleep or at night or when Pat would come home or when my family could help out. I had to be in charge of my time. And quickly I started opening more cafes with Pat. We opened Java Beach at the Zoo in 2008 with Kevin and Conor in tow. They were part of the whole process. I had no nanny, which is so crazy to think of, and I don’t necessarily recommend it. I was potty training Conor right before we opened. I remember shopping for ovens at a big restaurant showroom and hearing 'pee, pee' and sprinting across the showroom to the bathroom and racing him to the toilet. I made it, that time. Then, I bought a vintage Probat coffee roaster in 2009 and officially began my tactile coffee roasting exploration. My third son, Dylan, arrived in 2009, too. Then, we opened Beachside Coffee Bar & Kitchen in 2011. And we were slated to open another location. It was truly surreal. But, this was what I wanted at that time. I wanted a job that I could bring my kids along to."

Kamperett skirt and Innika Choo shirt">

巴菲穿着一件Kamperett裙子而且Innika Choo衬衫

“我没有母亲的负罪感。我想我是幸运的。我深受妈妈的担忧之苦——我是否要记得填好表格，以确保我的儿子能及时参加某个活动?或者任何形式的，糕饼义卖，生日派对请柬，等等，都有。作为父母，有太多的任务扑向你，很容易不知所措，忘记一些事情。害怕把事情搞砸是我的动力。我担心会漏掉一个球，这让我熬夜填写表格，订购制服，烤饼干，给老师发电子邮件，或者做任何能让我孩子的生活更充实，更好，更丰富，成为社区的一部分的事情。但我没有因为工作而有妈妈负罪感。说实话，我觉得我是个更好的妈妈，因为我有工作。这并不是说它更容易。 I just think I am personally fulfilled by the work I do and therefore I am a better person and a better mom. Everyone needs to find what is right for them, and I don’t have any judgments on working/not working. I think as mothers we always put our kids first, which is great, but I think that if our kids think they are the center of the universe at all times that isn’t always the best for them, so it is a fine line. I know that when it is time for my kids to go to college, they'll know I have developed a meaningful life outside of them and they are free to explore the big, wide-open world without worrying about me. That is a gift my mother gave me and I think it is so invaluable and empowering. And challenging!"

凯文·约翰，康纳·帕特里克，迪伦·布莱斯。凯文是以我俩父亲的名字命名的。凯文是我爸爸，约翰是帕特的爸爸。康纳是以帕特在贝尔法斯特的双胞胎表亲命名的——他们是同一年同一天出生的表亲。帕特里克是每个人的名字，尤其是我的丈夫，还有我的祖父，我的兄弟，我的侄子，我们家每个人都叫帕特里克。迪伦，对于第三个孩子，你要么a)满足你所有的家族姓氏，要么b)只想做你想做的事。我的是混合的。迪伦主要以鲍勃·迪伦命名，我爱他，认为他是一位了不起的诗人，也以迪伦·托马斯命名，他的文字就像歌曲。当我在2009年查阅这个名字时，上面写着“海洋之人”。我喜欢这样。 And Blaise was envisioned as a nod to my mother-in-law. I had the best mother-in-law anyone could ask for. And when she passed away we were all so lost without her. It felt so weird to have a baby and not bring the baby straight to her house from the hospital. At any rate, my mother-in-law passed away before Dylan was born and I wanted to honor her. She was a librarian and loved books and she had wanted to name her first born child Blaise. My father-in-law was not too interested in that name and my brother-in-law was never named Blaise. Coincidentally (or fate?), Dylan was born at home by accident on the Great Highway and was delivered by local firemen. Blaise is often a saint associated with firemen. His name was chosen before his unexpected birth plan."

"Dylan is 9 years old and at the moment, he appears to be a storyteller in the making. He is really into the intricate story plots of superhero stories. Flash, Power Rangers, and comic books, he dissects it all and analyzes it. And then he develops stories as offshoots of what he reads or watches. He also makes books—he draws, writes, and then makes copies and staples it all together. He just asked me for a typewriter so he can write his own book and write letters to TV writers, and make suggestions of potential stories and new characters."

Buffy wears a Teija shirt and vintage Levi’s from General Store.">

“康纳今年12岁，一直在运动。他目前喜欢篮球、足球，还是个战略家。他几乎随时都能投篮和运球。他喜欢与篮球相关的时尚:鞋子、短裤、腿臂、紧身裤——篮球的整个氛围都是他现在喜欢的。但是，他一直喜欢玩和看体育比赛，知道所有的规则和所有的动作，并策划了很多策略。我喜欢看他思考的轮子在工作。”

“迪伦今年9岁，此刻，他似乎正在成为一个讲故事的人。他对超级英雄故事中错综复杂的情节非常着迷。《闪电侠》、《战队》和漫画书，他都进行了剖析和分析。然后他把自己读过或看过的故事发展成故事的分支。他也做书——他画画，写，然后复印，然后装订在一起。他只是向我要一台打字机，这样他就可以写自己的书，给电视编剧写信，并就潜在的故事和新角色提出建议。”

巴菲穿着一件Teija衬衫和李维斯的古董一般商店。

“凯文出生于情人节，他是一个充满爱的男孩。他是如此的外向和迷人。他走进一个房间，每个人都想认识他，他是如此友好和包容。他是每个人的朋友。凯文喜欢玩。他特别喜欢足球，但他是个天生的运动员。他也喜欢超级英雄和故事。他喜欢读书和读书时间。他爱他的堂兄弟们，喜欢做一个大哥哥，他总是真诚地快乐和欢笑。”

“我们做了一个有意识的决定，让凯文经常出现在我们的家里和生活中。我们家里到处都有他生前的照片。我们谈论凯文的时候，他的声音不是低沉的，而是欢快的。我们分享回忆，谈论凯文，他仍然是我们家庭的重要组成部分。他对爱和喜悦的记忆是我们珍惜和培养的遗产。”

“和我的孩子们真正深入的谈话是令人兴奋的。我们就各种各样的事情谈了很长时间，我喜欢听他们的声音、他们的想法和他们的观点。看着他们长大成人，同时又意识到他们与刚出生时的性格并没有太大不同，这令人兴奋不已。我很荣幸能够帮助他们渡过难关。”“作为一个母亲，我最喜欢的部分就是带我的孩子去遥远的地方旅行。咖啡的梦想元素之一是去咖啡农场，我经常拖着他们一起去。这并不是说它总是很容易——它不是——但它总是富有成效的。我喜欢带我的儿子们去现实生活中冒险，向他们展示不同的文化和不同的生活方式，揭露我们固有的偏见，展示世界各地的美丽。这让我很兴奋。他们在年轻的时候见过很多世面，我能听到这些世面是如何塑造他们的。 So amazing."

“在某种程度上，我很惊讶自己从未有过一个女孩。我以为我会有个女儿，但在其他方面，我意识到所有男孩都适合我。我是家里最大的孩子，可以说我是“像男孩一样”长大的。我觉得所有女孩都该享受一下。当我这么说的时候，我的意思是我的父亲和祖父——都是强壮的男人——把他们所有的智慧传授给了我，就好像我是一个男孩一样，我的母亲是一个女权主义者，来自“男人能做的事情，女人能做得更好”的时代，所以我没有受到保护，也没有公主幻想卖给我。抚养男孩对我来说是非常直观的。我爱他们的活力，他们的幽默，他们的力量，他们的脆弱，他们的原始。我喜欢他们从实践中学习。我喜欢触觉学习。我可以讲一下。 I am excited to model a strong woman and to show how to move through the world loving and respecting all people."

“我一直都知道我想成为一名母亲。我不知道我是怎么知道的，但我就是知道。”

Connor and Dylan wear Nike.">

“我觉得我的建议是不要接受任何建议，而是走自己的路。完美完成每一件事的压力太大了，你可能会在寻找中迷失自己，当我认为我们知道在没有所有分心的情况下，我们内心深处应该做什么。我的建议是，在母亲的身份下做你自己，无论如何表现出来都是完美的。这并不是说你不需要帮助!我们都需要帮助，但试着对自己温和一点，相信自己。你能行的!!”

康纳和迪伦穿着耐克．

"My parents were raised in Catholic schools and much to my grandparents’ horror, they sent me to San Francisco public schools for K-8th grade. This was an amazing experience for me. The 1980s in San Francisco were diverse and eclectic and wild. I met different people from different backgrounds and it was a great experience. There were other elements of the city that were unsafe by today’s standards, but I learned how to navigate them and I was more empowered for having experienced it. And then, for high school I did a complete 180 and went to University High School, an academically rigorous school in Pacific Heights. There I had another fantastic experience. Coming from public schools in the Mission—before the Mission experienced hipsters—and then attending UHS in Pacific Heights was such a huge shift. The academic education was phenomenal. I learned to write, to organize my thoughts, to speak my truth and back it up, and to own my intelligence."">

“从周一到周五，我的父母都是嬉皮士和不守规则的人，他们把我带大，然后，周末，我就被送到祖父母家，他们非常传统、传统和遵守规则。我从所有的矛盾中受益良多。我对每件事都学到了很多，因为这是一种不同的优势，它使我能够把我喜欢的东西和不适合我的东西从两个不同的世界中拼贴出来。家庭是一个重要的常数。”

“我的父母是在天主教学校长大的，让我祖父母很害怕的是，他们把我送到旧金山的公立学校读k -8年级。这对我来说是一次奇妙的经历。20世纪80年代的旧金山是多元的、兼收并蓄的、狂野的。我遇到了来自不同背景的人，这是一次很棒的经历。以今天的标准来看，这座城市还有其他不安全的地方，但我学会了如何驾驭它们，因为经历过这些，我更有力量了。然后，在高中，我做了一个180度的大转弯，去了大学高中，这是太平洋高地的一所学术严谨的学校。在那里我又有了一次奇妙的经历。从教会的公立学校毕业——在教会经历潮人之前——然后进入太平洋高地的UHS，这是一个巨大的转变。学术教育是惊人的。我学会了写作，学会了组织我的思想，学会了说出我的真理并加以支持，学会了拥有我的智慧。”

冲浪和糕点的双重乐趣。

“我喜欢衣服，用我自己的方式搭配衣服让我很开心。有时候，我喜欢穿高跟鞋配牛仔裤，有时候我喜欢穿Vans配时髦的裤子。我喜欢在一套服装中创造某种并列感，表明“是的，我喜欢拥抱我的女性气质，是的，无论我走到哪里，我都能坚持自己的风格。”我也有阶段性。但是，我一直很喜欢包包。我喜欢墨镜。我喜欢魅力。我喜欢在我的衣服上找到乐趣，有时我喜欢有点夸张。其他时候，我很低调。对我来说，衣服是一种表达自我的方式，我很享受这种表达方式。”

一些旧金山的兄弟姐妹。

Nike Air Jordans, bomber jacket, baseball hat—but I have always had enjoyed a 'street style' growing up in San Francisco, and I often pair it with a classic. I actually think I influenced their style, not the other way around. Style is a personal expression and I love leading by example that I am my own person with my own take on things open to new ideas, but original and authentic to who I am."">

“我一直很喜欢衣服，这一点没有改变。我儿子们对运动珠宝的热爱融入了我自己的风格，并与之一起奔跑耐克飞人乔丹鞋比如飞行员夹克、棒球帽，但我在旧金山长大，一直很喜欢“街头风格”，我经常会搭配经典款。我觉得是我影响了他们的风格，而不是他们影响了我。风格是一种个人表达，我喜欢以身作则，我是我自己，对事物有自己的看法，对新想法持开放态度，但我是原创的，是真实的。”

Tom Ford purse, my Prada black block heels, my Sacai bomber jacket and, in the winter, my black V-neck Frances Austen cashmere sweater. My dad was a huge fan of cashmere and the Frances Austen sweaters are simply the best I have worn. The trouble is I wear them all the time. Black jeans are my go to and I have a lot of different brands, such as Mother, Paige, JBrand, but they are comfy and presentable. I love Curator’s painter pants when I feel like adding some color. They are fabulous and comfortable and soft. When it warms up, I love Brother Vellies mule slip ons—they are so unbelievably glamorous and so fun, so colorful, so expressive, and so comfortably feminine. It’s actually sort of dangerous: I want them all. I think what Aurora James is doing is great. I love her style and her mission. I want to build more Kamperett into my life. I am drawn to the designers' classic elegance and the lines of their clothes are so wonderful. The black high-waisted skirt I bought from them is so perfect, I wear it all the time and always get compliments on it. Freda Salvador is obviously always a favorite. I find that when I shop for Fredas, I gravitate towards their shoes that are not staples, but show stoppers. And I always get glowing comments on my Fredas."">

“我喜欢我的葡萄酒汤姆•福特钱包,我普拉达黑色厚底高跟鞋，我的Sacai飞行员夹克，冬天穿我的黑色v领弗朗西丝·奥斯丁羊绒毛衣。我父亲是羊绒的超级粉丝，而弗朗西斯·奥斯汀的毛衣是我穿过的最好的毛衣。问题是我一直都戴着。黑色牛仔裤是我的最爱，我有很多不同的品牌，比如妈妈。，佩奇，JBrand，但它们既舒适又美观。我爱馆长的画家裤子当我想添加一些颜色。它们非常棒，舒适又柔软。当天气变暖时，我喜欢哥哥Vellies骡子滑靴——它们是如此令人难以置信地迷人，如此有趣，如此丰富多彩，如此富有表现力，如此舒适地女性化。这其实有点危险:我都想要。我想极光詹姆斯做得很好。我喜欢她的风格和她的使命。我想建造更多Kamperett走进我的生活。我被设计师的经典优雅所吸引，他们衣服的线条是如此美妙。黑色的高腰裙我从他们那里买的太完美了，我一直穿着它，总是得到赞美。弗雷达萨尔瓦多显然是最受欢迎的。我发现，当我为Fredas购物时，我被他们的鞋子所吸引，它们不是主食，而是展示的亮点。我的弗雷达总是得到热烈的评价。”

Vinter’s Daughter. The stuff is amazing. I seriously can’t believe it and I am now an annoying convert. My friends were annoyed with me evangelizing Vinter’s Daughter serum and then they tried it and now they have seen the light and will not go back. I also use Glossier boy brow every single day and I don’t know what I did before I wore that. Glossier partnered with Lady Falcon and they gifted me all this luscious make-up and it was a game changer for my beauty routine. I am really enjoying playing with Glossier Play, it is so fun and it stays on and isn’t goopy. The rest of my beauty brands change. I like Kerstin Florian SPF, I like Chanel mascara. I like to mix certain elements up."">

“我试着保持一个非常简单，因此，可以实现的美容程序。我喜欢我的皮肤非常干净和水润。我用热毛巾洗脸，爽肤水，然后涂上厚厚的一层酿造的女儿．这东西太神奇了。我真的不敢相信，我现在是一个讨厌的皈依者。我的朋友们对我宣扬Vinter 's Daughter血清感到恼火，然后他们尝试了一下，现在他们看到了光明，不会再回头了。我还用更有光泽的男孩眉毛每一天我都不知道我穿它之前做过什么格洛西尔和法尔肯女士合作，他们送给我这款甜美的化妆品，这改变了我的美容习惯。我真的很喜欢玩光彩夺目的玩它是如此有趣，它保持不变，不黏。我其他的美容品牌都变了。我喜欢Kerstin Florian SPF，我喜欢香奈儿的睫毛膏．我喜欢混合某些元素。”

“我每周做三次力量训练，每周做五天有氧运动。有些星期比其他星期好。我注意到，当我这样做的时候，我更清楚，效率更高，所以在我觉得没有时间的日子里，我总是试着鼓励自己。我也喜欢下海，我不认为这有用，我认为这是冥想和自我照顾的结合。我大部分时间都在冥想。”

Legion of Honor, de Young, or SFMOMA, or to the smaller galleries that are celebrating artists such as the Great Highway Gallery or visiting the personal studios of artists, like my friend Georgia Hodge’s Mud Studio. And I love, love, love going to Green Apple Books. I could stay in there for days. All of these provide me with creative restoration."">

“在海洋里或海洋附近肯定是‘我’的时间。可以是在沙滩上散步，也可以是在水里跳一跳。它使我的灵魂平静，提醒我我是谁，我要去哪里，什么是重要的。海洋是如此广阔，我们在它的范围内都是如此之小。这对我来说是自由的。我也喜欢去看艺术展览，不管是大一点的博物馆，比如荣誉军团，德年轻,或SFMOMA，或者去一些较小的画廊，这些画廊正在庆祝艺术家们的作品高速公路画廊或者参观艺术家的私人工作室，比如我的朋友乔治娅·霍奇的泥浆工作室．我喜欢，喜欢，喜欢去绿苹果书．我可以在里面待好几天。所有这些都为我提供了创造性的修复。”

Lady Falcon front—so many things, as always. I'm constantly walking around with a million ideas in my head. I would like to further cultivate our online sales—we just released an update to ladyfalconcoffeeclub.com—and I'd love to expand our list of stockists. Right now some awesome, inspiring companies like Anthropologie and Food52 sell LFCC, but I've got my eye on quite a few more. Boutique shops, too! I'm in awe of some of the curated assortments that I've seen smaller shopkeepers pulling together. Incredible. I'm also focused on introducing and educating people about the health benefits (and delish taste!) of cascara—the dried coffee cherries with which we make a blended tea with. Right now, we make a cascar-hibiscus tea. And I have a few other superfood blends in the line up. And through it all, I would love. love, love to further collaborate with like-minded creators and do fun projects with my team—I've met so many incredible women on this journey and bringing them into the fold has become somewhat of a mission for me."

"We just launched the Lady Falcon Coffee Club subscription series—it's a new and super fun way to get LFCC at home or the office. Each Club subscription delivery includes coffees, tips, goodies from different collaborators, and some exciting exclusives. It is just in the beginning stages, but it is going to be an exciting way for us to be part of people's daily coffee experience across the country and make their subscriptions extra special and unique. I have a ton of ideas to collaborate with other brands, but right now I am building it up and creating a direct relationship with our base. We have people all over the U.S. that want to have LFCC and want a direct dialogue with us and that is amazing. So, it is going to be fun to cultivate and to grow all this on our online store, and to bring all the Lady Falcons out there their sustenance for living their best lives." ">

”夫人猎鹰像往常一样，面对这么多事情。我脑子里总是有无数的想法。我想进一步培养我们的在线销售，我们刚刚发布了一个更新ladyfalconcoffeeclub.com-我想扩大我们的库存商名单。现在一些很棒的，鼓舞人心的公司，比如Anthropologie而且Food52出售LFCC，但我已经看上了不少。还有精品店!我对我所见过的一些小店主精心挑选的分类商品感到敬畏。难以置信的我还专注于向人们介绍和教育卡斯卡拉的健康益处(和美味的味道!)——我们用来制作混合茶的干咖啡樱桃。现在，我们要泡一杯芙蓉茶。我还有其他一些超级混合食物。经历了这一切，我很乐意。我喜欢和志同道合的创作者进一步合作，和我的团队一起做有趣的项目——在这段旅程中，我遇到了很多不可思议的女性，把她们拉进我们的圈子已经成为我的一项使命。”

“我们刚刚推出了猎鹰女士咖啡俱乐部订阅系列——这是一种新的超级有趣的方式，可以在家里或办公室获得LFCC。每个俱乐部订阅交付包括咖啡，小费，来自不同合作者的好东西，和一些令人兴奋的独家。这只是在开始阶段，但对我们来说，这将是一种令人兴奋的方式，让我们成为全国各地人们日常咖啡体验的一部分，让他们的订阅更加特别和独特。我有很多与其他品牌合作的想法，但现在我正在建立它，并与我们的基地建立直接关系。美国各地都有人想要LFCC，想要与我们直接对话，这太棒了。所以，在我们的网上商店里培育和种植这些东西，并为所有的猎鹰女士提供食物，让她们过上最好的生活，这将是一件有趣的事情。”

“就我个人而言，除了做一个母亲和伴侣，我还想在写作上下功夫。我一直在写一本以科技出现之前的旧金山为背景的小说，我想把它成型，与出版商或电影制作人分享。”

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对于旧金山的当地人和游客来说，周五到周日在阿拉莫广场公园可以找到猎鹰女士咖啡车。