母亲

“功能，舒适，丰富多彩。”

Molly wears a vintage India hippie caftan from Stone Fox Bride Second Life Archive. Sunny's dress is by Sophie Catalou.">

“它可以污渍和/或撕裂，看起来略微凉爽吗？我可以在帽子下降十二人吗？舒适是关键。没有任何邋或综合的允许！”

莫莉佩戴一架复古印度嬉皮士Caftan石狐狸新娘Second Life的存档。阳光的衣服是苏菲Catalou。

Dana Haim custom made the beautiful pom-pom mobile—they’re all made by hand by a collective of teenage moms in Cartagena. I have an unnatural obsession with soft blankets—some of these were made by my mother-in-law, some I got a few years back in India, Mexico City, and Peru."">

“我知道我希望她有动物印花窗帘和一个舒适的地方阅读。其余的只是我从我的婴儿前的生活或我所爱的东西的东西。纸机长颈鹿头从我的婚礼登记处获胜我的朋友吹笛者。显然我痴迷于羊皮。地毯属于我的娜娜。我的朋友达娜希雅定制美丽的聚甲醛，聚甲醛移动 - 它们全部由手工在卡塔赫纳少女妈妈的集体。我有一个柔软的不自然的迷恋毯子，其中的一些被我岳母做，有些我在印度，墨西哥，秘鲁和几年前“。

“是的！这是布鲁克林，婴儿 - 作为所有当地的房地产经纪人说，这个社区的三卧室公寓比独角兽更难以找到。”

“这座奇怪的塑料城堡曾经属于她的堂兄Roxy。我希望它可以说是她收集无毒的木制动物，我们从堕落的红木树枝上雕刻了自己。”

“我再也不能按我心爱的打盹按钮每天早上100次，只担心自己，并有一台冰箱，只有拥有粉红香槟，芹菜，和宝丽来胶片。我一定要回家，每天晚上（除少数例外）下午6时and ready to devote the next three hours selflessly to making my little nugget dinner, bathing her, and putting her to bed. And the bottom line question I return to throughout the day is: 'In the end, will this decision ultimately improve my child’s quality of life?'"

Guinness Book Of World Records-worthy postpartum depression, but instead fell in love with my baby immediately and fell into a state of joy and peace that I had never felt before. I know that sounds super Hallmark-y and annoying, but it’s true. It’s like my heart grew six hundred sizes."">

“我相信，我的女儿出生后，我就从一个衰弱苦，吉尼斯世界纪录-Worthy产后抑郁症，而是立即爱上了我的宝宝，陷入了我从未觉得过的快乐和平状态。我知道这听起来超级哈马克 - y和烦人，但这是真的。就像我的心中增长了六百尺寸。“

The Writer about a father and his daughter who free a dazed starling that accidentally flies through their open window. 'It is always a matter my darling, of life and death, as I had forgotten,' reads the last lines of the poem. 'I wish what I wished you before, but harder.' Also, Sunshine Cinema is the name of the movie theatre where Mike and I had our first date. The name Sunny is also a tribute to Mike’s Uncle Kevin and my Grandpa Sol. Uncle Kevin's nickname was Sunshine—and Sol in Spanish translates into sun. I also love the Buddhist poem that says:
'May the sun shine upon you
All love surround you
And the pure light within you
Guide your way home.'”">

“我一直喜欢的名字阳光，只是喜欢它没有理由。她的中间名是八哥叫后我最喜爱的理查德·威尔伯的一首诗作家关于父亲和他的女儿谁腾出一只八哥茫然不小心通过他们敞开的窗户飞。“这始终是一个问题我的宝贝，生命和死亡的，因为我已经忘记了，”读这首诗的最后一行。“我希望我以前想你，但更难。”还，阳光影院是电影剧场，迈克和我有我们的第一次约会的名称。阳光的名称也是致敬迈克的叔叔凯文和我爷爷索尔。凯文叔叔的绰号是阳光和Sol在西班牙语翻译成阳光下。我也很喜欢佛教诗云：
“可在你的阳光下熠熠生辉
所有的爱包围着你
和你内心的纯光
引导你回家的路。'”

Electric Love dreamcatchers, original Cass Bird photo, all my Nana’s Moroccan rugs, and dining room table made by my hot friend Pat Glynn, who is a woodworker extraordinaire. Also the custom-made Dana Haim pompom mobile hanging in Sunny’s room always puts me in a good mood."">

“我爱我的葡萄酒kantha被子沙发，痴迷于我的电爱捕梦网，原卡斯鸟我的辣的朋友帕特格林，谁是木工做非凡的照片，我所有的娜娜的摩洛哥地毯和餐桌。另外，定做达娜希雅绒球手机挂在阳光的房间总是把我的好心情。”

Nakashima grass chairs, low wooden coffee tables with sharp 90-degree corners, the list goes on..."">

“有个孩子就像是拥有野生动物，必须在所有的时刻，可以为绝对熵准备。没有更多的冷却吹制玻璃花瓶，脆弱纳卡什玛草椅，用锋利的90度角低木制咖啡桌，这样的例子不胜枚举......”

“我对我们全白色的卧室，后一个混乱的一天导航市中心肮脏的纽约时尚界的迷恋，我觉得没有什么比倒塌与薄荷和薰衣草精油喷雾的蓬松的枕头，我巨大的舒适的云状茧更放松。”

Stone Fox Bride—the anti-bridal bridal showroom in downtown NYC for cool ladies getting married who don’t want anything to do with the puff, fluff, and phoniness of the traditional bridal world."">

“我的创意总监和联合创始人石狐新娘- 纽约市中心的防新娘新娘陈列室为酷女士结婚，他不想与传统新娘世界的泡芙，绒毛和呼吸有关。“

“我是前杂志编辑成交的毕业生转身小说家转向美容撰稿人和无用的PISTEAN梦想家，有一天让我的杂志Hodgpepodge后自由派艺术学位技能进入一个真正的职业生涯的一些外表。”

Stone Fox Bride book—a mishmash of essays, interviews, tips, photos, and inspiration about adjusting your expectations, not just of the planning process, but of marriage itself—is due out next year, published by Spiegel and Grau."">

“这石狐新娘书籍的散文，访谈，提示，照片和灵感，不仅仅是规划过程，而且婚姻本身就是明年，由Spiegel和Grau出版。“

“时间管理是一个优先事项。当我和她在一起时，我尽力用女儿完全出现，这意味着最大化我在工作的时间，以便在一天结束时我不会把它与我带回家。”

“YES. Love-hate this city, for sure. It’s like an eternal illness, the most beautiful disease you’ll ever have—once it gets in your bones, it never leaves. I’ve been here for almost twenty years. Every day I find it more and more repulsive, crowded, and unlivable, but every day I fall in love with it a little more."

“是的！你他妈的在开玩笑吗？”

Molly wears an embroidered vintage black caftan on loan from Meredith Melling, co-founder of La Marque. Sunny wears a skirt by Aiaty and a blue t-shirt hand me down from Felix Forsling.">

“We talk about 'baby sister,' but I don’t know if it really registers. My best friend Dana is a PhD in early childhood development and feels strongly that you shouldn’t talk about your pregnancy until a couple months before your due date. Unfortunately I got that memo rather late and have been blabbing about the baby in my belly ever since the pregnancy test came out positive. But Dane said telling your firstborn you are bringing home another child is comparable to your husband walking in from work one day and announcing: 'I have fallen in love with another woman who is equally as amazing as you. From here on out, she will be sleeping in our bed every night.' I’m sure I’ve already done irreparable damage."

莫莉穿在贷款从梅雷迪思梅林，联合创始人绣复古黑色裋拉马斯克。阳光穿通过Aiaty裙子和蓝色T恤的手从我菲利克斯Forsling下来。

“谈到建议时，我试图不给它或接受它。通常不擅长。”

“学习责任，界限，纪律，结构 - 我跑到的所有事情直到她出生。现在我被迫进入一个围绕其他人关心的例程，我的许多自我驱动的恐惧已经消失了。必须出现，是负责任的，并将自己的需求放在一边实际上让我的生活变得更加丰富。结婚，拥有孩子，长大成长，一般有一种美丽的“处理魔鬼”的氛围 - 这一切智慧和自爱你获得的是与自我和自我欺骗的人直接成比例。“

“她是超级乐趣，非常有趣，和聪明的乐趣。她对自己的独立，她的爱情，她对阅读的热爱，玩耍，相信。她喜欢用刺刀搭配搭配刺激奶油奶酪。她喜欢狗，多莉，猫和火车。她自发地笑了，她睡觉时像小狗一样咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜咕噜。comfortable around people she doesn’t know—but when she does, she is hilarious, vulnerable, and wild. She is perceptive, sensitive, and capable of reading a situation clearly. Can you tell I am obsessed with her? She has killer style. I could write 800 pages on this subject alone."

“我妈妈和我一起超级开放，鼓励我做我的事情，永远让我感到自我意识到我的兴趣和想法。她是我们家的真正自由精神：总是跳舞，唱歌，鞭打狂野的嬉皮士dinners, reading poems at dinner. I’d like to think my parenting incorporates a lot of that joy and spontaneity."

A River Wild. Watch it right now and you’ll know what I mean."">

“绝对是麦迪斯特莱克在电影中的角色阿江野。现在看它，你会知道我的意思。“

Ryan Roche sweaters, black Lanvin flats, and Isabel Marant boots. The more ponchos and capes, the better."">

。“非常平易近人，我没有很多的衣服，但那些我做的，我爱我有几个项目我回到年复一年：经典破旧的黑色皮夹克，印度棉块复古印花连身裙，瑞安罗氏毛衣，黑色lanvin公寓，和Isabel Marant.靴子。更披风和斗篷，精益求精“。

“我已经缩减了很多。我曾经是一个有点强迫性购物者和壁橱舍得扔。现在，我尝试只坚持的基本知识。”

Isabel Marant poncho, a long blue lurex 1970’s vintage India dress, my Hatch black maternity jumpsuit, and Ryan Roche knit sweaters."">

“绿色和黑色Isabel Marant.雨披，蓝色长金银丝1970年的复古装扮印度，我孵化黑色连身衣产妇和瑞安罗氏编织毛衣“。

“我绝望地忍受了一些新的床上用品，但试图拯救一些令人敬畏的东西。我想让我的女儿为她的卧室给她的凉爽帐篷。”

Ebay. Etsy. Stone Fox Bride Vintage Second Life Collection. Century 21. I hate buying anything at full price."">

“eBay.。etsy.。石狐狸新娘复古第二生活收藏。世纪21。我讨厌以全价购买任何东西“。

Far From The Tree by Andrew Solomon and Blessing For A Skinned Knee by Wendy Mogel PhD are pretty great parenting reads."">

“远离树由安德鲁·所罗门和祝福剥了皮的膝盖由温迪·莫热尔的博士都是非常伟大的亲子阅读“。

“我的第一个学期两次已经超越地狱般的，但它一直非常顺利，因为帆船运动。敲木”。

Purely Perfect Non-Shampoo Shampoo.
Linda Rodin anything.
SW Basics Shea Butter Face Cream.
Epsom salts.
Avocado oil.
Coconut oil.
">

玫瑰精油，柠檬精油。
纯粹完美的非洗发水洗发水。
琳达罗汀任何事物。
SW Basics Shea酱脸霜。
泻盐。
鳄梨油。
椰子油。

“我倾向于炫耀，但主要是因为我真的很懒惰，希望人们给我在地铁上的座位。”

Hatch black maternity jumpsuit, salt and vinegar potato chips, New York Pilates, gratitude, mom friends who get it, and raspberry leaf tea."">

“我的孵化黑色生育连衣，盐和醋薯片，纽约普拉提，感恩，妈妈的朋友谁得到它，和覆盆子叶茶。”

“日期之夜，夫妻治疗，并且口交还有很长的路要走。”

Molly wears an Isabel Marant sweater and her mama's hat from the 70s. Sunny wears a coat from Mor Mor Rita by Ryan Roche.">

“一个快速热的epsom盐浴，走在街区，在地铁上播客，用女朋友办理电话呼叫 - 这是一个走向很长的东西。”

莫莉耐磨Isabel Marant.毛衣，从70年代她妈妈的帽子。阳光穿由铁道部铁道部丽塔大衣瑞安罗氏。

Mccarren Park Pool. In the winter, Sunday mornings we have early morning brunches at Five Leaves or the Whythe Hotel, drink 'coffee' (hers is steamed milk with honey) at the local cafes, window shop in Williamsburg, manis and pedis on the corner, that kind of thing. An ideal Sunday night is matching full-fat Greek yogurt face masks, a joint hot bath, and cozy reading sesh in bed. We love reading."">

“取决于季节：夏天有很多的布鲁克林乘坐渡轮的，前往农贸市场，在中小飞象软雪糕筒，游泳麦卡伦公园游泳池。在冬季，周日上午我们在清晨的早午餐五叶或者Whythe酒店，在当地的咖啡馆，在当地的咖啡馆，在威廉斯堡，曼尼斯和佩斯在角落里的窗户店，饮用'咖啡'（Hers是蜂蜜牛奶）。一个理想的星期天晚上与床上的全脂肪希腊酸奶面罩，一间接合热浴室和舒适的读书套装相匹配。我们喜欢阅读。“