我们最喜欢的母亲是在这里做的最喜欢的事情是让我们的读者深入诚实地看待世界各地其他母亲的生活每周的概要文件。但是，Covid-19 Pandemic有许多人（包括美国！）在我们的家中，无法冒险。我们现在仍然懂得 - 现在，只有永远的家庭想要了解别人现在是如何经历他们的日子，因为所在的学校教育，托儿和隐私都被淘汰。所以，我们很自豪地介绍一个全新的系列，生活中的一天，在那些慷慨和诚实地让我们整整一天的生活，从睁大眼睛熄灭。首先是Juvilynn特，Stenographer和妈妈到4名儿童 - 范围从9年到8个月。她和她的混纺汤最近搬入了加利福尼亚州马林的新家，除了带有新房和新宝宝的磨坊挑战之外，她开辟了令人遗憾的焦虑，激动疯狂的孩子，以及很多未知数。点击下面的完整幻灯片看，看看生活中的一天是什么样的Juvilynn。
生命中的一天:Juvilynn Arbuthnot
9:00 AM
03/26/20
摄影的Juvilynn特
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尤维琳，38岁，自由速记员。
泰森，45，旧金山市副市律师。
斯凯拉，(几乎)5岁，学龄前儿童。
斯特拉，2，专业的混乱制造商。
索伦，8个月，婴儿的房子。
塞巴斯蒂安，九岁，继子，这周在他妈妈家。
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- “We live in Marin County in California. There’s a shelter in place order for a duration of—tentatively—three weeks starting from March 17, and we can only be out for 'essential' reasons like grocery runs and prescription pickup, gas, etc. And work, if you’re considered an 'essential worker.' Restaurants are still taking orders for takeout and delivery. Bars are closed. Marin parks, playgrounds, trails, and beaches have been either closed or have restricted access due to overcrowding over the past weekend. We have been advised to stay in our respective counties, to not drive anywhere to get outdoors and, instead, stay close to our own neighborhoods."
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- “说实话，我很欢迎避难所的限制，因为我有一大堆待办事项，我已经忽视了好几个月，这终于给了我时间去做所有的事情，而不会对工作或事情感到害怕，我通常会放弃去完成它。在马林县，我们住的地方离自然很近，有一个很大的院子，所以我们不会觉得与户外太隔绝。然而，这场大流行病引发了千百万个不同的情绪，所有这些都让我在身体和精神上难以置信地不知所措;我一整天都在循环这种感觉。我担心我所爱的人，我在相信和不相信之间摇摆不定。我不知道该先处理什么，所以我就抱着我的孩子和丈夫一个小时一个小时地处理。在我们的一生中从来没有过这样的事情，我注意到每个人处理它的方式都不一样，所以我也一直提醒自己要练习额外的同情心和耐心。我有过一些糟糕的时刻。我一周经历了神经衰弱到避难所湾区,很快意识到,我的心理健康,我需要只关注我能控制的东西,比如照顾我的健康和家庭和社会距离,呆在家里,待通知,并做好准备。”
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- “我的大女儿，天空，天空了解冠状病毒，作为一种疾病，这是一个留着萝拉和洛洛 - 祖母和爷爷的疾病，是她取消的生日聚会，妈妈和达达的原因很多，没有学校一段时间。另外两个太年轻，继续生活在我们家外面的任何事情。我们希望尽可能长时间地为他们保持正常的事情，并将它们免于消极性和我们的焦虑。“
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- “孩子们：上午8:30父母：上午8:31”
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- “简单滚动一下手机上的通知;在Facebook上读到一篇关于疫情的可怕文章;当孩子们带着100个请求冲进我们的房间时，避免了陷入COVID-19“研究”的兔子洞;否决其中99项请求;改变两个尿布;清洗每个人的手;放些曲调;准备好茶、咖啡和早餐。”
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Dave’s Killer Bread English muffins with Clover Organic butter and Santa Cruz Organic strawberry jelly. Kids have peanut butter on Alvarado Street toast. Multivitamin gummies for all. The baby has a bottle of formula and half a jar of organic Earth’s Best baby food (banana + sweet potato)."
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- “戴夫的凶手面包英式松饼和三叶草有机黄油和圣克鲁斯有机草莓果冻。孩子们涂着花生酱阿尔瓦拉多街吐司。多种维生素软糖。这个婴儿有一瓶配方奶粉和半罐有机食品地球最好的婴儿食品（香蕉+甘薯）。“
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Lady Falcon Coffee and whole milk for Tyson, Stash English Breakfast tea with a splash of whole milk for me."">
- “夫人猎鹰咖啡和泰森的全牛奶，藏我要英式早餐茶，再加一点全脂牛奶。”
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- “混合了。我们有一般的倾向于让孩子们与孩子们保持心情，但是对工作的不确定性的重量，缺乏结构，从庇护所下降之前的工作截止日期下降，并且不断尖叫/争吵/苛刻的婴儿是一个挑战。“
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- “泰森和我每人都有大约两个小时的时间单独处理我们需要完成的工作和行政事务;否则我们一天中大部分时间都是即兴发挥。”
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Scooby Doo and the baby sat in his Charlie Crane chair; put on another Dôen nightgown; vacuumed; played music on the house stereo; danced with the babies in the living room. I cried once during 'Over the Rainbow' by Israel Kamakawiwo’ole. Feeling an undercurrent of sadness and fear, but dancing and music soothes my heart. I push away thoughts about the pandemic for now, open up all the windows, and play the music louder, and definitely keep off of social media except to post a story or share some good memes or answer DMs."">
- “我洗了很长时间的热水澡，假装自己在水疗中心，女孩们看着我史酷比婴儿坐在他身边查理起重机椅子;放在另一个人多恩的睡衣；用吸尘器吸过;用家里的立体声音响播放音乐;在客厅里和孩子们一起跳舞。有一次看《飞越彩虹》的时候我哭了以色列kamakawiwo'ole.。感到悲伤和恐惧的暗流，但跳舞和音乐抚慰我的心。我现在推开了关于大流行的想法，开辟了所有的窗户，并扮演音乐更响亮，绝对远离社交媒体，除了发布故事或分享一些好的模因或回答DMS。“
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- “女孩们吃了些零食，看了会儿电视。最大的孩子还在学前班，所以家庭学校还没有固定的学习方式。我现在正厚颜无耻地允许比平时更多的屏幕时间，这样我就能把事情做完。宝宝不想我让他躺太久，所以我经常抱着他到处跑。我感觉好多了。我没有查看社交媒体。这是我的第三杯茶，绝对是无聊/焦虑的零食。”
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- 孩子们的办公空间。
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- “My husband is on a conference call in our camper van in the driveway; I’m at my desk checking emails and putting tasks on my paper calendar. I have one baby with me; the other two kids are having independent imaginary playtime (it may involve multiple costume changes). I’m having my 10th cup of tea now? I checked Facebook once. Anxiety starts to creep back in. I’m realizing I’m not going to be working for a while and I'm grateful that my husband has a job with the city that will continue to pay him and keep us financially afloat for now."
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- “We never 'work on work' or take calls at the same time. We alternate turns preparing breakfast. He cooks lunch and dinner, and I keep the house in order. He brushes the kids’ teeth, and I put the kids to bed. We are a pretty great team."
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Amy's
frozen Indian food (Mattar Paneer), the kids’ favorite. It’s organic and easy. We're a little bit low on produce because it’s been two weeks since the last market haul, and I'm too afraid to risk exposure right now. Grocery delivery service has been backed up or not available, so frozen meals have been getting us through. We have orange slices and oatmeal raisin cookies for dessert. Honest
juice boxes. Lunch for me is just random grazing from the fridge. I’m too busy obsessively putting away toys, doing laundry, and washing dishes. I sent Tyson away to cash in on a surf session in Santa Cruz and I’m solo at the helm, but I don’t mind. Sometimes, oddly enough, I prefer running the show by myself!"">
- “艾米的冷冻印度食物（Mattar印度奶酪)，孩子们的最爱。这是有机的，简单的。我们的农产品有点短缺因为距离上次市场销售已经过去两周了，我现在不敢冒险。食品杂货送货服务已经停止了，所以冷冻食品一直在帮助我们。我们有橘子片和燕麦葡萄干饼干作甜点。诚实的果汁盒。我的午餐就是随便从冰箱里拿点吃的。我忙得不可开交，忙着收拾玩具，洗衣服，洗碗。我让泰森去圣克鲁斯冲浪赚了钱现在我一个人掌舵，但我不介意。有时候，奇怪的是，我更喜欢自己一个人做主!”
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- “The sun’s out today and it’s warm on the back deck. I like to get the kids outside to soak up some rays and break up the screen time and tedium of being indoors. Every day, we have been 'painting our feelings' with watercolors. I set the kids up with their paints for an hour. This is when I check back into Facebook and CNN and scroll through headlines, communicate via text or FaceTime with friends and family, and 'check in' with my village. Again, more bad news, more mounting dread. Fuck."
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- 画一些感情。
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- ”爸爸回家。我们在附近散了一会儿步，让孩子们骑着滑板车在一个空荡荡的教堂停车场里转。在家的时候，我们一起在阅览室听音乐;我喝一杯索菲·詹姆斯玫瑰，而我丈夫喝一杯马克。孩子们把他当成攀爬架，或者在沙发上跳，或者跳舞。我们谈论关于大流行病的新发展、未来、我们的恐惧、我们的希望，以及我们从朋友和家人那里收集到的信息。我们有音乐播放。我们不知道该有什么感觉。我又哭了。然后零食。 Always snacks."
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Wiley Body body bubble and the bath jets creates a massive wall of bubbles. I scroll, again, through the headlines—notice a pattern?—during this time, sitting next to the tub, with the baby in his bounce chair. More bad news. I’ll also mine for more memes and beautiful photos and positive images and update my Instagram stories to balance out the negative. Seems like my friends and family are all doing well. I'm feeling okay."">
- “洗澡时间——永远的每晚例行公事。一个泵威利的身体身体泡沫和浴巾射击墙壁的泡沫墙壁。我再次滚动了头条新闻 - 注意一个模式？ - 这次，坐在浴缸旁边，带着宝宝的弹跳椅。更多坏消息。我还可以挖掘更多的模因和美丽的照片和正面图像，并更新我的Instagram故事，以平衡消极。好像我的朋友和家人都做得很好。我感觉没问题。“
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- “Having a loose to-do list gives some degree of structure. Even though we’re having to shelter in place and, for me, have very little actual work, there are a million things to do around the house and for the babies. We did away with dishes and now use paper plates for the time being. Our dishwasher broke a few months ago, and dishwashing has become an exhausting, never ending task. Cleaning up the house in the evenings before bedtime also provides a better feeling in the morning."
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- 多任务处理是一种新常态。
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Beyond Meat burger patties and Tyson fires up the grill on the back deck and we have veggie burgers. Skylar is picky and instead eats scraps of leftover Costco rotisserie chicken. We follow up with organic fudge bars from Whole Foods, which are running low and making me feel anxious about going to the market."">
- “天气仍然很好。我们有超越肉类汉堡馅饼和泰森在后面甲板上发射烤架，我们有素食主义者汉堡。Skylar是挑剔的，而是吃剩余的Costco Rotisserie Chicken的碎片。我们跟进有机乳脂棒整种食物这让我对去市场感到焦虑。”
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- “用我的婴儿在客厅里跳舞，音乐出现了，窗户开放，只是感激在这个梦想的房子里乘坐这个大流行的噩梦，或者在阳光下用婴儿和绘画在后面的甲板上绘画，感觉温暖和瞬间的安全。基本上，我忘记了我们四墙之外的世界的所有时代。“
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- “试图保持恐慌和担忧最低;努力整天都在检查恐怖，逃生世界情况的更新，但最终比我应该更频繁地屈服于它。”
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- “8:30 is brush teeth time. At 9 p.m. I read each kid a book of their choice. We discuss what we want to do tomorrow, allow 10 minutes of jumping on their beds, then tuck the girls into bed. Stella will sneak out of their room a couple times and stare at us in the family room from the hallway, but will eventually, finally, go to sleep."
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- “一边在Netflix上看一部好电影或节目，一边狂吃我们放在‘顶层’不让孩子们吃的含糖零食。最终我在社交媒体上迷了路，泰森在沙发上睡着了。”
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To keep up with Juvilynn and her sweet family, be sure to follow along on Instagram. ">
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“We’re looking forward to this nightmare ending, even though it’s impossible at the moment to know how long it will take to get there, if ever. Right now our country has barely begun the worst of it. It’s a new and aggressive, very contagious virus; it’s not a person or entity with whom we can negotiate. There really isn’t a sure time frame as to what’s next, when we can go back to work, resume life, have toilet paper shelves fully stocked at all times at the supermarket. So much uncertainty! But more than anything, we look forward to hugging and being with our family and friends again."
为了与Juvilynn和她甜蜜的家人保持联系，一定要跟上Instagram。
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