母亲:和艺术家卡丽莎·波特在家里

与艺术家Carissa Potter和Pottery Barn Kids在家里

凯蒂·辛茨-桑布拉诺编剧

7点我

10/19/22

对于混合媒体艺术家假虎刺属波特她在奥克兰的家就像一张额外的空白画布。在这种情况下，她与建筑师丈夫Josh和3岁的女儿Margaret合作创作，塑造了过程和最终结果。卡丽莎内心热爱自然(“如果我有一种宗教，”卡丽莎说，“它将以地球为中心。”)，卡丽莎和她的船员是完美的合作伙伴陶器谷仓的孩子使用该品牌的环保，有意识地制作家具来改造他们的空间。

从彩虹色调的展示安装在墙上的书架到最后工艺美术桌(这是Greenguard金牌认证)，他们的游戏室和“大孩子”卧室的全新选择达到了他们的目标。“我们重视艺术和创造力，”Carissa说。“所以这个空间有玩耍的空间，也可以变得凌乱。”

除了向我们展示他们的新鲜空间，Carissa还打开关于她的艺术实践，母亲身份如何改变了她的创作习惯，以及养育一个患有囊性纤维化的孩子的挑战和人生教训。

在我们的幻灯片中了解卡丽莎·波特，并窥视她的陶器谷仓孩子们玩耍的空间!

这篇文章是x妈妈带给你的陶器谷仓的孩子．

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Pottery Barn Kids playroom! The colorful space is filled with eco-friendly furnishings by PBK, mingled with Carissa's own art and accessories from her brand, People I've Loved. "Both myself and my husband Josh really wanted a space for Margaret to play and feel like she could be inspired," says Carissa. "We also wanted containment for all the stuff we have accumulated since becoming parents. We both have a hard time letting go of things."">: 卡丽莎和她三岁的女儿玛格丽特，在他们新装修的陶器谷仓的孩子游戏室!

这个色彩丰富的空间里摆满了PBK的环保家具，还有Carissa自己的艺术作品和她品牌的配饰，我爱过的人．

卡丽莎说:“我和我丈夫乔什都想给玛格丽特一个玩耍的空间，让她觉得自己可以受到启发。”“我们还想控制我们为人父母以来积累的所有东西。我们都很难释怀。”

Neutral Ultimate Art Easel, $229, Pottery Barn Kids. Sloan Storage Bookcase, $549, Pottery Barn Kids. Merced Glider, $899, Pottery Barn Kids. Paxton Ottoman, $449, Pottery Barn Kids. Naturalist Floor Lamp, $329, Pottery Barn Kids. Pop Color Photo Ledge, $69-$79, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: “我们重视艺术和创造力。这样空间就有了玩耍的空间，也有了脏乱的空间。给玛格丽特活动身体和跳舞的空间。我不知道她会不会成为一名艺术家。我一直在想她这辈子会做些什么，我非常想让她有归属感。不管在哪儿。”

中性终极艺术画架，229美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

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自然落地灯，329美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

流行彩色照片窗台，69- 79美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Pop Color Photo Ledges by Pottery Barn Kids are made of solid poplar wood and finished with acrylic latex paint in a variety of 12 vibrant colors (each sold separately). The ledges are BPA-, phthalate- and lead-free, making them extra-safe for kid-centric spaces. Carissa chose a handful of playful colors (Red, Light Blue, Orange, Aqua, and Yellow) to create a fun, visual, and colorful anchor for the playroom. Pop Color Photo Ledge, $69-$79, Pottery Barn Kids. Last Stop on Market Street, $18.99, Pottery Barn Kids. Dragons Love Tacos (from the Modern Classics 8-book bundle), $144.92, Pottery Barn Kids. Peter Rabbit Heirloom Book, $90, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: 的流行彩色照片壁架“孩子们”由坚固的杨木制成，表面涂上丙烯酸乳胶漆，有12种鲜艳的颜色(每一种都单独出售)。窗台是双酚a，邻苯二甲酸盐和无铅，使他们格外安全的儿童为中心的空间。

Carissa选择了一些俏皮的颜色(红色、浅蓝色、橙色、水色和黄色)，为游戏室创造了一个有趣的、视觉的、多彩的锚。

流行彩色照片窗台，69- 79美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

市场街最后一站，18.99美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

《龙爱玉米卷》(现代经典8册)，144.92美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

彼得兔传家宝书，90美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Pop Color Photo Ledges are from Pottery Barn Kids' curated selection of books, including Heirloom Books like Eloise and new Modern Classics book bundles. "We love books," says Carissa. "During the pandemic we started a collection of favorites for children. Margaret’s tube feedings used to each take an hour per feed and we had to keep her entertained. And now it is just kinda an obsession. I love having a colorful place to look at all the books that bring us joy." Pop Color Photo Ledge, $69-$79, Pottery Barn Kids. Eloise Heirloom Book, $82, Pottery Barn Kids. Last Stop on Market Street, $18.99, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: 一些标题填补了生机勃勃的流行彩色照片壁架都来自Pottery Barn Kids精心挑选的书籍，包括传家宝书籍，比如埃路易斯和新现代经典书的包。

“我们爱书，”卡丽莎说。“疫情期间，我们开始收集孩子们最喜欢的东西。玛格丽特的试管喂养每次需要一个小时，我们必须让她开心。而现在只是一种痴迷。我喜欢有一个丰富多彩的地方，可以看所有给我们带来快乐的书。”

流行彩色照片窗台，69- 79美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

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市场街最后一站，18.99美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Merced Glider reading. I am sitting in it right now because it is my favorite spot in the house." "And the Carolina Craft Table has this really amazing spot for a Paper Roll, so you can basically endlessly paint and draw without running out of space. I am toying with the idea of getting a large adult version for myself at my studio, because I love it so much!" Carolina Craft Table, $279, Pottery Barn Kids. Play Table Paper Roll, $19, Pottery Barn Kids. Carolina Play Chairs (Set of 2), $99, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: “我们从坐在那里得到很多乐趣默塞德滑翔机阅读。我现在坐在里面，因为这是我最喜欢的地方。”

”和卡罗莱纳工艺桌这地方真的很棒吗纸卷，所以你基本上可以无休止地画画，而不会耗尽空间。我正在考虑在我的工作室里给自己买一个大号的成人版，因为我太喜欢它了!”

卡罗莱纳手工桌，279美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

玩桌纸卷，19美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

卡罗莱纳游戏椅(一套2张)，99美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Carolina Craft Table gives aspiring artists (and their parents!) plenty of room to create their masterpieces. It's made of durable hardwood with a smooth, fine grain that makes it durable and easy to clean. All wood is kiln-dried, a process that ensures that the furniture will never split, warp, crack, or mildew. It's also finished in child-safe, water-based paint which provides durability, depth of color, and richness. Carolina Craft Table, $279, Pottery Barn Kids. Play Table Paper Roll, $19, Pottery Barn Kids. Carolina Play Chairs (Set of 2), $99, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: 绿色卫士黄金认证卡罗莱纳工艺桌给有抱负的艺术家(和他们的父母!)足够的空间来创作他们的杰作。

它由耐用的硬木制成，光滑，细纹，耐用，易于清洁。所有的木材都经过窑干，这一过程确保了家具永远不会开裂、翘曲、开裂或发霉。

它还使用了儿童安全的水性涂料，提供了耐久性、颜色深度和丰富性。

卡罗莱纳手工桌，279美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

玩桌纸卷，19美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

卡罗莱纳游戏椅(一套2张)，99美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Carolina Craft Table, $279, Pottery Barn Kids. Play Table Paper Roll, $19, Pottery Barn Kids. Carolina Play Chairs (Set of 2), $99, Pottery Barn Kids. Neutral Ultimate Art Easel, $229, Pottery Barn Kids. Sloan Storage Bookcase, $549, Pottery Barn Kids.">: “对我来说，我希望玛格丽特有一个更好的未来，我也希望一切都能长久。我认为，在评估这些东西的价值时，我必须考虑东西是如何生产的，我确实关心在一个有这么多东西的世界里制造的道德。我也很小气。如果我买了一些耐用的好东西，我就会感觉很好。”

卡罗莱纳手工桌，279美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

玩桌纸卷，19美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

卡罗莱纳游戏椅(一套2张)，99美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

中性终极艺术画架，229美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

斯隆存储书柜，549美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Carolina Craft Table. "We really value expression and creativity in our home, so this work table was a must for us. It's super functional and well made and has storage drawers to contain all of the colors in the world!" "Both Josh and I live to work, which is sad in a way, and joyous in the fact that we both really love what we do," she says. "We know that having a good work table makes the creative process that much more enjoyable." Carolina Craft Table, $279, Pottery Barn Kids. Play Table Paper Roll, $19, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: “我只希望这张桌子是我的尺寸!卡罗莱纳工艺桌．“我们非常重视在家里的表达和创造力，所以这张工作台对我们来说是必须的。它超级实用，做工精良，有存储抽屉，可以容纳世界上所有的颜色!”

她说:“乔希和我都是为了工作而活，这在某种程度上是悲伤的，但我们都很喜欢我们所做的事情，这让我们很高兴。”“我们知道，拥有一张好的工作台会让创作过程更加愉快。”

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"She also loves what she calls 'Sticky Stuff' (candy) and 'Messy Paint' (acrylic). She loves Dancing On My Own by Robyn. Putting on her shoes. She learned that last week. She also tells me what she dreams about. Mostly about cats." Carolina Craft Table, $279, Pottery Barn Kids. Play Table Paper Roll, $19, Pottery Barn Kids. Carolina Play Chairs (Set of 2), $99, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: “猫。她喜欢所有和猫有关的东西。疫情期间，一只流浪猫收养了我们，她非常喜欢它。他的名字叫奥兰治·怀特。就在那个和双眼之间。”

“她还喜欢她所谓的‘黏糊糊的东西’(糖果)和‘乱七八糟的油漆’(丙烯)。她喜欢自己跳舞罗宾。穿鞋。她上周才知道的。她还告诉我她做了什么梦。主要是关于猫的。”

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玩桌纸卷，19美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

卡罗莱纳游戏椅(一套2张)，99美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Sloan Storage Bookcase because we can store books and toys and also hook up the record player, store records, and then just dance!" The mid-century-inspired Sloan Storage Bookcase features two sturdy shelves, two cubbies, and a drawer to hold favorite stories and trinkets. It's Greenguard Gold Certified to contribute to healthier indoor air. And it's made in a Fair Trade Certified™ factory, supporting fair and safe labor practices and empowering workers to invest in their communities. Sloan Storage Bookcase, $549, Pottery Barn Kids. Naturalist Floor Lamp, $329, Pottery Barn Kids. Art by People I've Loved. ">: “当我们有孩子的时候，我不知道我们会得到多少东西——当东西不在地板上的时候，我们肯定需要一种方法来保持所有东西都有条理，”Carissa说。“我喜欢斯隆储物柜因为我们可以存储书籍和玩具，还可以连接唱机，存储唱片，然后跳舞!”

的mid-century-inspired斯隆储物柜设有两个坚固的架子，两个小隔间，和一个抽屉，以保持最喜欢的故事和小饰品。

它是绿色卫士金牌认证，有助于更健康的室内空气。它是在经过公平贸易认证的工厂生产的，支持公平和安全的劳动实践，并使工人能够投资于他们的社区。

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艺术的我爱过的人．

Naturalist Floor Lamp. "I am really drawn to classic, well-made things that I feel comfortable investing in. I am planning on having this lamp for the rest of my life and I want it to function well in all of our spaces. As our family's needs change, the lamp will be able to adapt along with us." Naturalist Floor Lamp, $329, Pottery Barn Kids. Sloan Storage Bookcase, $549, Pottery Barn Kids. Art & Blanket by People I've Loved. Merced Glider, $899, Pottery Barn Kids. Paxton Ottoman, $449, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: “我真的很喜欢我们的新灯是如此的坚固，”卡丽莎谈到最畅销的灯时说自然落地灯．“我真的很喜欢经典的、制作精良的东西，我觉得投资起来很舒服。我打算用这盏灯度过我的余生，我希望它在我们所有的空间都能很好地发挥作用。随着我们家庭需求的变化，这盏灯将能够与我们一起适应。”

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艺术&毛毯by我爱过的人．

默塞德滑翔机，899美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Paxton Ottoman, 449美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Merced Glider, $899, Pottery Barn Kids. Paxton Ottoman, $449, Pottery Barn Kids. Naturalist Floor Lamp, $329, Pottery Barn Kids. Blanket by People I've Loved. ">: “我们在奥克兰已经住了十年了。现在时间是个有趣的东西。感觉它既没完没了，又太快了。我一直在想，作为一个母亲，我希望每一刻的时间都能停下来，又能快进。我太累了，同时又想珍惜和玛格丽特在一起的每一刻。它给我们上了一堂课，要同时掌握几个真理。”

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毛毯的我爱过的人．

"Oddly enough, the company has been so stable during this time and Margaret’s health has not. I never worried before she came that I would lose her. I remember having this irrational sense that everything would be ok. When I remember it, I chuckle." "In some ways I feel like you have to have a sort of delusion that things will work out when doing anything. And having children is a total mindfuck. We tried to have kids for like 2 years and then one day it just happened. And then there was no going back." Sloan Storage Bookcase, $549, Pottery Barn Kids. Merced Glider, $899, Pottery Barn Kids. Paxton Ottoman, $449, Pottery Barn Kids. Naturalist Floor Lamp, $329, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: “不是真的。我并不反对，但主要是害怕整件事。我有一个焦虑的性格，害怕如果我们有孩子，我就不能成为一个艺术家。就像是时间问题。我害怕我会失去公司。”

“奇怪的是，在这段时间里，公司一直很稳定，而玛格丽特的健康却一直不稳定。在她来之前，我从不担心我会失去她。我记得当时有种非理性的感觉，以为一切都会好起来的。当我想起它时，我笑了。”

“在某些方面，我觉得你必须有一种错觉，认为做任何事情都能解决问题。生孩子完全是一种精神操。我们试着要了2年的孩子，然后有一天就这么发生了。然后就没有回头路了。”

斯隆存储书柜，549美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

默塞德滑翔机，899美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Paxton Ottoman, 449美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

自然落地灯，329美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Noble. Merced Glider, $899, Pottery Barn Kids. Paxton Ottoman, $449, Pottery Barn Kids. Naturalist Floor Lamp, $329, Pottery Barn Kids. Pop Color Photo Ledge, $69-$79, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: Carissa和Margaret穿着非常可爱的实用套装高贵的．

默塞德滑翔机，899美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Paxton Ottoman, 449美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

自然落地灯，329美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

流行彩色照片窗台，69- 79美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Sloan Storage Bookcase, $549, Pottery Barn Kids. Art by People I've Loved. Merced Glider, $899, Pottery Barn Kids. Paxton Ottoman, $449, Pottery Barn Kids. Naturalist Floor Lamp, $329, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: “玛格丽特是我妈妈的名字，也是我爸爸的妈妈的名字。我叫卡丽莎·波特·卡尔森，我妈妈叫我波特，爸爸叫我卡尔森。我刚开始和乔什约会的时候，对他来说，延续凯勒的姓氏非常重要。他想让它在他的血脉中延续下去。我说好的。我戴着玫瑰色的眼镜，当时觉得自己并不在乎。12年过去了，我们就要有孩子了，我改变主意了。我想让玛格丽特用我的姓因为我也是我们家最后一个卡尔森家的人。所以，我们选定了玛格丽特·卡尔森·凯勒。”

斯隆存储书柜，549美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

艺术的我爱过的人．

默塞德滑翔机，899美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Paxton Ottoman, 449美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

自然落地灯，329美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

"I started seeing a psychiatrist, and upped my meds. Emotionally, I was just going through the motions. I was jealous of everyone who had a healthy baby. I was scared that I would hurt Margaret. But at the same time, I had never loved anyone as deeply and madly as her before. And the fear of that being taken away kept me up at night."">: “我不是一个真正祈祷的人。我是不可知论者。我一直在寻找反映我价值观的意义和仪式。确诊后的几个星期里，我每天晚上都向上帝祈祷。我告诉他们我愿意做任何事让这一切都不是真的。如果我曾经要求过什么，这就是唯一的要求。我会在玛格丽特睡觉时盯着她，紧紧抱着她，在她耳边低语，告诉她一切都会好起来的。”

“我开始看心理医生，并加大了药物剂量。感情上，我只是在走过场。我嫉妒每一个有健康宝宝的人。我害怕我会伤害玛格丽特。但与此同时，我从来没有像她这样深而疯狂地爱过任何人。我害怕这个机会被夺走，彻夜难眠。”

"I think having Margaret has made me think that we have WAY less control than I thought. Also it has really highlighted the fragile nature of life. It’s so sacred, I try my best to enjoy it when I can. And not let it get me down." "I am also more empathetic and selfish. I say this without judgement, but I was fighting with our nurse coordinator the other day about the time that Margaret sees her pulmonologist. She wanted her later in the day. But for people with CF, the earlier in the day, the better. They schedule the sicker kids later so they don’t, in theory, infect the well kids. I understand this rationally, but in my mind, I was pissed. I wanted Margaret to be seen first thing. I had to push back my instincts that Margaret should be first and rationalize that this was better for the good of everyone. It was this weird balancing act of wills; wanting to save Margaret the possibility of getting infected with something with not waiting to infect other children with her MSSA. I took the later appointment, but I didn’t like doing it."">: “我觉得我的一生很幸运。有些人可能会说有福。我以为只有别人才会遇到困难。像暴力和死亡这样的坏事，在统计学上对我来说不太可能发生。我相信自己会在绿植环绕、湖景环绕的环境中老死。很奇怪，但就是这样。玛格丽特是个例外。你可以做好准备，把一切都做好，但最好的情况下，控制仍然是有限的。”

“我认为玛格丽特的出现让我觉得我们的控制力比我想象的要小得多。它也真正凸显了生命的脆弱本质。它是如此神圣，我尽我最大的努力享受它，当我可以。不要让它打倒我。”

“我也更有同情心，也更自私。我这么说没有偏见，但有一天我和我们的护士协调员就玛格丽特去看肺科医生的时间发生了争执。她今天晚些时候要她。但对于CF患者来说，一天中越早越好。他们把病情较重的孩子安排在较晚的时间，这样理论上，他们就不会感染健康的孩子。我理性地理解这一点，但在我心里，我很生气。我想第一时间见到玛格丽特。我不得不克制自己的直觉，认为玛格丽特应该是第一位的，并合理地解释这对每个人都好。这是一种奇怪的意志平衡;她想要拯救玛格丽特不让她的MSSA传染给其他孩子。 I took the later appointment, but I didn’t like doing it."

Merced Glider and Paxton Ottoman, which are both Greenguard Gold certified and meet strict chemical emissions limits to contribute to cleaner indoor air. "I love the super-simple, functional, timeless design. There is something about having a cozy spot to read that just makes everything better." Merced Glider, $899, Pottery Barn Kids. Paxton Ottoman, $449, Pottery Barn Kids. Naturalist Floor Lamp, $329, Pottery Barn Kids. Pop Color Photo Ledge, $69-$79, Pottery Barn Kids. Sloan Storage Bookcase, $549, Pottery Barn Kids. Art by People I've Loved. ">: “上次我妈妈来的时候，她说我们家没有一个地方让人舒服。她是对的。现在有了。默塞德滑翔机而且帕克斯顿奥斯曼，这些产品都通过了Greenguard Gold认证，并符合严格的化学排放限制，有助于清洁室内空气。

“我喜欢这种超级简单、实用、永恒的设计。有一个舒适的地方阅读会让一切变得更好。”

默塞德滑翔机，899美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Paxton Ottoman, 449美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

自然落地灯，329美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

流行彩色照片窗台，69- 79美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

斯隆存储书柜，549美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

艺术的我爱过的人．

"It is hard. I feel like in this moment everyone else has moved on from COVID-19, and for good reason. They want to enjoy life again. To be with people. To feel alive. But we are still very much in lockdown. Less so than we were, as we see people from time-to-time and Margaret has just started school. However, we are waiting on a drug to be approved for Margaret that would make us feel safer with illness. Until then, every time she gets sick, there is a chance her lung function will be permanently damaged and she will build up tolerance to antibiotics with time. So if we can keep her well, that is ideal." "The other thing I should mention is that her treatments go from 2 hours a day to 4 hours a day when she is sick. And the reality is that 4 hours a day of breathing treatments is a lot." Foamnasium Blocksy Kids Couch, $259, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: “我的意思是，我们真的很幸运，我岳母和我们住了8个月，然后我爸爸搬来和我们一起住。如果没有他们的帮助，我们中的一个人就不得不停止工作了。”

“这很难。我觉得在这一刻，其他人都已经从COVID-19中走出来了，这是有充分理由的。他们想再次享受生活。和人们在一起。感觉自己还活着。但我们仍然处于封锁状态。不像我们那样，因为我们不时地看到人们玛格丽特刚刚开始上学。然而，我们正在等待一种治疗玛格丽特的药物获得批准，让我们在生病时感到更安全。在那之前，每次她生病，她的肺功能都有可能永久性受损，随着时间的推移，她会对抗生素产生耐药性。所以如果我们能把她养好，那就太理想了。”

“我还要提到的另一件事是，她生病时的治疗时间从每天2小时增加到每天4小时。而现实是，每天4小时的呼吸治疗太多了。”

泡沫塑料儿童沙发，259美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Carolina Craft Table, $279, Pottery Barn Kids. Play Table Paper Roll, $19, Pottery Barn Kids. Neutral Ultimate Art Easel, $229, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: “和玛格丽特分享一切。我的意思是，不是所有的事情，但我们可以聊天，以真实的方式互相支持，这个想法很棒。每一个阶段都很有趣。新的大脑发育，新的好恶。理解人格及其形成是非常有趣的。”

卡罗莱纳手工桌，279美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

玩桌纸卷，19美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

中性终极艺术画架，229美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Neutral Ultimate Art Easel, $229, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: “一切。我不知道谁——等等，实际上有时我妹妹——不会对养育子女感到极度焦虑。对于玛格丽特，我担心她是否适应，是否觉得自己被接受。我希望她有有意义的关系，但当你有CF(或任何时候真的)时，接近人类是危险的事情。我想保护她的心脏。与此同时，我希望它被爱，而爱意味着经历失去。这是美丽而痛苦的，我想我只是想让她体验一个完整的生活。不管这对她意味着什么。”

中性终极艺术画架，229美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Foamnasium Blocksy Couch is rad!" says Carissa. "I have a lot of anxiety as a parent that Margaret will fall and get hurt. And we both agree that this is the best in the west. I use it for stretching in the morning and then Margaret jumps on it all day long." "I love that it is made in the USA, you can easily clean it, and I feel safe to rough-house on it. I can also build super awesome forts in like two seconds. We use it for puppet shows, long jumps, and somersaults. Fun + safe = relaxing." The supremely versatile Foamnasium Blocksy Couch is made out of strong, lead-free and phthalate-free vinyl that is antimicrobial, easy to clean, and flame retardant without the use of harmful FR chemicals. It comes in 6 soothing hues and contains 4 parts that can be used in a multitude of ways when creating forts, playspaces, and more! Foamnasium Blocksy Kids Couch, $259, Pottery Barn Kids.">: “我们的新泡沫塑料沙发太棒了!”卡丽莎说。“作为家长，我非常担心玛格丽特会摔倒受伤。我们都认为这是西方最好的。我早上用它来伸展身体，然后玛格丽特一整天都在上面跳。”

“我喜欢它是在美国制造的，你可以很容易地清洗它，而且我觉得在它上面打闹很安全。我还可以在两秒钟内建造超级棒的堡垒。我们用它来表演木偶戏、跳远和翻筋斗。有趣+安全=放松。”

万能的泡沫塑料沙发是由强大的，无铅和邻苯二甲酸酯的乙烯基制成，抗菌，易于清洁，阻燃，不使用有害的FR化学品。

它有6种舒缓的色调，包含4个部分，可以在创建堡垒、游戏空间和更多的时候以多种方式使用!

泡沫塑料儿童沙发，259美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

"I was really lucky to be born into a family that valued expression. And was not super concerned with conforming to societal expectations. They took really good care of us. I always felt loved. That they had our backs. They remembered to pick us up from school. At the time I thought that all families were like that." "I was always labeled the sensitive child and I think at a young age, it was unspoken that I was an artist. They didn’t expressly say it, but the writing was on the wall. My mother had wanted to be an artist. My father longed to be a musician. They gave both myself and my sister Casey the gift of supporting us in doing what we loved." Foamnasium Blocksy Kids Couch, $259, Pottery Barn Kids.">: “当时我觉得这很正常。但是回过头来看，我觉得我的家庭是非常进步的。我的父母住在一起，但已经离婚了。我95岁的祖父仍然认为自己是女权主义者。”

“我非常幸运地出生在一个重视表达的家庭。也不太在意是否符合社会期望。他们把我们照顾得很好。我总觉得自己被爱着。他们支持我们。他们记得去学校接我们。当时我以为所有的家庭都是这样的。”

“我总是被贴上敏感孩子的标签，我想在我很小的时候，我是一个艺术家是不言而喻的。他们没有明确说出来，但这是不祥之兆。我母亲曾想成为一名艺术家。我父亲渴望成为一名音乐家。他们给了我和我妹妹凯西一份礼物，支持我们做我们喜欢的事情。”

泡沫塑料儿童沙发，259美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

"My mother, on the other hand, has the skills to understand where Margaret is in her development (she has her doctorate in early childhood education). If ever I am having a problem, she is up-to-date on the research and parenting trends. She is gentle and kind and helps me brainstorm ways to move through life's transitions with ease." Foamnasium Blocksy Kids Couch, $259, Pottery Barn Kids.">: “我首先想到的是一种不断发展的理解育儿的方法。我父亲真的很好奇，和玛格丽特玩得很开心。他让她乱。他跟着她走。玛格丽特今天告诉我她想和爷爷住在一起。她很想念他(他现在去看我妹妹了)。”

“另一方面，我的母亲有能力了解玛格丽特的发展阶段(她有幼儿教育博士学位)。如果我有什么问题，她会及时提供最新的研究和育儿趋势。她温柔善良，帮助我思考如何轻松度过人生的转折。”

泡沫塑料儿童沙发，259美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

"I feel like right now, I want her to have a firm understanding and feeling of agency in her life. There is so much she just wont have control over and hard medical stuff, that when I can do things her way, I try my best to do so." Pop Color Photo Ledge, $69-$79, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: “对于我没有合并的东西，我首先想到的是我母亲在融入方面有一些问题。也就是说，我发现她会说:“玛格丽特，当你不想在我旁边吃饭时，我感觉很糟糕。”我不希望玛格丽特因为内疚而去做事。我希望大家都能相信她，如果她想在餐桌上和小猫们坐在一起，那就这样吧。她两岁。她还有余生来调和自己的需求和他人的需求。”

“我觉得现在，我想让她对自己的生活有一个坚定的理解和感觉。有那么多她无法控制的事情和艰难的医疗问题，当我能按她的方式做事时，我会尽最大努力去做。”

流行彩色照片窗台，69- 79美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Pottery Barn Kids "big girl" bedroom, which is anchored by the Avalon Daybed (with fun mix-and-match bedding) and the chic Nash Extra-Wide Dresser. Avalon Day Bed, $1699, Pottery Barn Kids. Woven Prayer Hamper, $129, Pottery Barn Kids. Spotlight Floor Lamp, $229, Pottery Barn Kids. Nash Extra-Wide Dresser, $1699, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: 玛格丽特和卡丽莎正精神抖擞陶器谷仓的孩子“大女孩”的卧室，这是锚定阿瓦隆长椅(搭配有趣的混搭床品)和时髦纳什超宽梳妆台．

Avalon日间床，1699美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

编织祈祷篮，129美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

聚光灯落地灯，229美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

纳什超宽梳妆台，1699美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Black Metal Frame Mirror helps soften the space and also makes it feel a little bigger." Black Metal Frame Mirror, $199, Pottery Barn Kids. Nash Extra-Wide Dresser, $1699, Pottery Barn Kids. Harvest Moon Glow Light, $129, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: “我们有一个小空间，有很多硬边，”Carissa解释说，“所以黑色金属镜框镜有助于软化空间，也让它感觉更大一点。”

黑色金属镜框镜子，199美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

纳什超宽梳妆台，1699美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Harvest Moon Glow Light, 129美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

"The Avalon Daybed felt like it was super safe, but could also grow with her. It is like one super big pillow, the type of bed that you can just slide into and you feel yourself let go and be present. It can also stay with us through all stages of her youth and also function as a guest bed." Avalon Day Bed, $1699, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: “我们很早就给玛格丽特安排了一张双人床。她从来没有真正睡过婴儿床，”卡丽莎解释道。“我们换了一张双人床，这样我们中的一个可以和她睡在一起，如果幸运的话，另一个可以睡得着。”

“阿瓦隆长椅感觉超级安全，还能和她一起成长。它就像一个超大的枕头，你可以钻进去，感觉自己放松了，活在当下。它可以陪伴我们度过她年轻的各个阶段，也可以作为客人的床。”

Avalon日间床，1699美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Sasha’s Garden Quilt and I like the idea of having a secret garden, a magic place to retreat to. And that feels like the right sentiment when going to sleep." "And the Organic Sheet Set & Pillowcases are unbelievably comfortable—they are the right kind of soft that you want for sheets." Sasha’s Garden Quilt & Sham Set, $241.50, Pottery Barn Kids. Check Organic Sheet Set & Pillowcases, $69, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: 卡丽莎说:“我想在床上用品上做得张扬一点，我觉得玛格丽特会最喜欢这个组合。”“她真的很喜欢独角兽、马和猫。玛格丽特喜欢玩3D元素萨沙的花园被子我喜欢拥有一个秘密花园的想法，一个可以静心的神奇地方。这感觉就像睡觉时的正确情绪。”

”和有机床单套装和枕套令人难以置信的舒适——它们正是你想要的那种柔软的床单。”

Sasha 's Garden棉被& Sham套装，241.50美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

检查有机床单套装和枕套，69美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Harvest Moon Glow Light is our favorite thing! We take it with us from room to room," says Carissa. "I kinda feel like every room should have one of these. It is endless hours of whole family entertainment, just watching the lights change color or reading with it before sleep comes." Harvest Moon Glow Light, $129, Pottery Barn Kids.">: “秋月辉光是我们最喜欢的东西!我们带着它从一个房间到另一个房间，”卡丽莎说。“我觉得每个房间都应该有一个。在睡觉前，只要看着灯光变换颜色，或者伴着灯光阅读，就可以享受无穷无尽的家庭娱乐。”

Harvest Moon Glow Light, 129美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

"I do, however, really feel like if I were to have a religion, it would be centered around the earth. The seasons, the cosmic power of the planets, the life-giving soothing that just being in nature brings. That watching the sun rise with all other living beings, being 'reset' together as one massive life force is really cool. Nature heals." Harvest Moon Glow Light, $129, Pottery Barn Kids.">: “这是一个棘手的问题。在玛格丽特之前，我会答应的。我们每天都要做一些事情来感谢和享受地球给我们的所有礼物。但让玛格丽特活着是不可持续的。我们用了那么多的医疗用品，一想到它们被扔在垃圾填埋场，我的心就疼——但我还是这么做了。”

“然而，我真的觉得，如果我有一个宗教，它将以地球为中心。季节，行星的宇宙力量，大自然带来的生命的慰藉。和所有其他生物一起看太阳升起，被“重置”成一个巨大的生命力量，真的很酷。自然愈合。”

Harvest Moon Glow Light, 129美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

First Rite and First Rite Kids. Harvest Moon Glow Light, $129, Pottery Barn Kids.">: 卡丽莎和玛格丽特穿的舒适衣服也是妈妈自己的品牌，第一个仪式而且第一次仪式的孩子．

Harvest Moon Glow Light, 129美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Woven Prayer Hamper is made using eco-friendly, fast-growing natural reeds to create an extra large, extra sturdy hamper with a fitted top. It's perfect for laundry, but also useful for storing stuffed animals, linens...or playing hide-and-seek with other favorite objects. Meanwhile, the Harvest Moon Glow Light brings a soothing glow to any space and features 16 color options and five light modes. With a remote, you can control the settings from anywhere in your room. Woven Prayer Hamper, $129, Pottery Barn Kids. Harvest Moon Glow Light, $129, Pottery Barn Kids.">: 的编织祈祷篮是用环保的，快速生长的天然芦苇制作的，一个超大的，特别坚固的篮子，配有一个合适的顶部。它非常适合洗衣服，也可以用来存放毛绒玩具、亚麻制品……或者和其他喜欢的东西玩捉迷藏。

与此同时,秋月辉光为任何空间带来舒缓的光芒，并设有16种颜色选项和5种灯光模式。有了遥控器，你可以在房间的任何地方控制设置。

编织祈祷篮，129美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Harvest Moon Glow Light, 129美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

"I knew I wanted to go to grad school because I wanted to keep going and that seemed like the way to sustain making art at the time. It also got me out of Minneapolis—it was a built-in community and environment that fostered exploration." Harvest Moon Glow Light, $129, Pottery Barn Kids.">: “我认为我是一个好奇的视觉人。我喜欢人际关系。我喜欢互动。我喜欢做白日梦。我去了一所文理学院学习艺术，艺术/艺术史系主任说我不够聪明，不能学习艺术史，也没有足够的天赋来学习工作室艺术(我大四的时候他问我为什么不学艺术，但那是另一回事)。”

“我知道我想读研究生，因为我想继续前进，那似乎是当时维持艺术创作的方式。这也让我离开了明尼阿波利斯——这是一个内置的社区和环境，鼓励探索。”

Harvest Moon Glow Light, 129美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Spotlight Floor Lamp feels like a classic, modern lamp that gives off lots of light," says Carissa. "I was just attracted to it. And as I get older, I am picky about lighting." Spotlight Floor Lamp, $229, Pottery Barn Kids. Nash Extra-Wide Dresser, $1699, Pottery Barn Kids. Black Metal Frame Mirror, $199, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: “聚光落地灯感觉就像一盏经典的、现代的灯，能发出很多光，”Carissa说。“我就是被它吸引了。随着年龄的增长，我对灯光也很挑剔。”

聚光灯落地灯，229美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

纳什超宽梳妆台，1699美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

黑色金属镜框镜子，199美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Nash Extra-Wide Dresser is sleek and can go with most anything while Margaret grows," says Carissa. "It feels in line with the simplicity of the room and has thoughtful details, like the leather pulls. I love it. I want one for my room!" Nash Extra-Wide Dresser, $1699, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: “纳什超宽梳妆台在玛格丽特长大的过程中，它可以和几乎任何东西搭配。”卡丽莎说。“它与房间的简洁感相吻合，而且有一些细致入微的细节，比如皮具。我很喜欢。我的房间里也要一个!”

纳什超宽梳妆台，1699美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

"I was always drawn to social interactions. I would revisit them over and over (have you watched The Rehearsal on HBO? Kinda like that…). Early on, I thought about stationery as this way to help people say the things that they were longing to but couldn't actually do it for some reason. I loved being able to be invited into people’s interactions, exploring intimacy with strangers." Black Metal Frame Mirror, $199, Pottery Barn Kids. Nash Extra-Wide Dresser, $1699, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: “最近我一直在告诉自己，我基本上只是一个翻译。”

“我总是被社交活动所吸引。我会一遍又一遍地重温它们(你看过吗彩排HBO吗?有点像…)一开始，我想文具通过这种方式帮助人们说出他们渴望但由于某种原因无法做到的事情。我喜欢能够被邀请到人们的互动中，探索与陌生人的亲密关系。”

黑色金属镜框镜子，199美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

纳什超宽梳妆台，1699美元，陶器谷仓的孩子．

Carissa's own work. Sasha’s Garden Quilt & Sham Set, $241.50, Pottery Barn Kids. Avalon Day Bed, $1699, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: 玛格丽特房间里的彩色艺术品是家里的朋友画的，还有卡丽莎自己的作品．

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"Maybe this is my big break? I always think that any show I have or project might be the last time I ever get to do anything, so I treat it with extreme care and fear that this might be all there is, and I need to be ok with that." Sasha’s Garden Quilt & Sham Set, $241.50, Pottery Barn Kids. Avalon Day Bed, $1699, Pottery Barn Kids. Check Organic Sheet Set & Pillowcases, $69, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: “我没有任何重大突破。我想说，我经历了更多的缓慢燃烧。我出现了，做了我能做的，主要是我很幸运。”

“也许这是我的重大突破?”我总是认为我的任何节目或项目都可能是我最后一次做任何事情，所以我非常小心地对待它，担心这可能是我的全部，我需要接受这一点。”

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"When I was pregnant, I also didn't think much, I just made, and the work was all about the experience of becoming a mother. I feel like I make art from experience and motherhood has added so much to my understanding of life. How could it not have a huge effect on everything? One thing, I have gained more efficiency." Sasha’s Garden Quilt & Sham Set, $241.50, Pottery Barn Kids. Avalon Day Bed, $1699, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: “100%。当我怀孕的时候，不知何故，我觉得我们在一起做的一切都是合作。事实就是这样。和玛格丽特在一起，我觉得我可以做任何事。我想是因为荷尔蒙?或者IDK，但在那段时间里，我感受到了这种极端的创造力。我对每件事都感到高兴，我幻想着这个世界最终会变得美好。我们都会很安全，相对幸福，活得长久。”

“当我怀孕的时候，我也没有想太多，我只是做，工作都是关于成为母亲的经历。我觉得我从经验中创造艺术，母亲的身份增加了我对生活的理解。它怎么可能对一切都没有巨大的影响呢?首先，我提高了效率。”

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Pottery Barn Kids. Avalon Day Bed, $1699, Pottery Barn Kids. ">: 嗯……玛格丽特去了哪里?

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"I love letting her pick out her clothes, sometimes. Sometimes she’s really excited about putting on clothes, sometimes it’s a struggle. I think the thing that I’m surprised about is how much I don’t actively try to put us in the same clothes but somehow we always end up wearing similar outfits." "Also, I recently went to New York for four days, and when I got back she was able to put on her own pants and shoes. I’m not sure how this happened." ">: “玛格丽特生来对任何事情都有自己的看法。也许是我在投射，也许她离开我身体的那一刻确实有一种本能的偏好。”

“有时候，我喜欢让她挑衣服。有时她对穿上衣服很兴奋，有时却很纠结。我觉得让我惊讶的是，我并没有积极地让我们穿一样的衣服，但不知怎的，我们总是穿相似的衣服。”

“而且，我最近去纽约呆了四天，当我回来的时候，她已经可以自己穿裤子和鞋子了。我不知道这是怎么发生的。”

"With choice overload these days, I feel pretty burned out on making decisions, so I kind of just wear the same thing most days. I tell my coworkers that I am both lazy and it’s better for the environment for me to just wear one thing a week. I change my socks though."">: “我真的不认为我有自己的风格。或者我应该说，我的穿着反映了我周围的文化和我所能接触到的东西。话虽如此，我还是倾向于功能性舒适的服装。”

“现在选择太多了，我觉得做决定很累，所以大部分时间我都穿同样的衣服。我告诉我的同事，我很懒，而且一周只穿一件衣服对环境更好。不过我会换袜子。”

Mabo. Carissa wears custom patchwork pieces by Carleen.">: 玛格丽特穿着一件连衣裙和高领毛衣Mabo．

Carissa穿着定制的拼接衣服Carleen．

Harklinikken to try to save my hair. And—this is both fortunate and unfortunate—it works! When I don’t use it for a few days, I can notice the difference. But I’m also really lucky to have any hair. I don’t know why hair is something I feel some amount as vanity about."">: “疫情期间，我开始掉光头发。我没什么护肤习惯，但我开始用这个牌子Harklinikken为了保住我的头发。而且——这是幸运的也是不幸的——它有效!当我几天不使用它时，我能注意到区别。但我也很幸运有头发。我不知道为什么头发会让我觉得有点虚荣。”

Clevr's Matcha Latte. I try to think of three things I’m thankful for every night before bed. And I try to do 10 minutes of morning stretches." "If anyone can help me figure out a way to actually exercise, I’d really like to do that again. Oh and I also really like self-help books." ">: “我喜欢喝酒。Clevr的抹茶拿铁．每晚睡觉前，我试着想三件我要感谢的事情。我试着在早上做10分钟的伸展运动。”

“如果有人能帮我找到真正锻炼的方法，我真的很想再做一次。哦，我还非常喜欢自助书籍。”

"I also keep a sketchbook and I write notes in there and then when I’m stuck I just look through it like a cheat sheet." ">: “打个盹,小憩一下。如果我真的被困住了，我可以打个盹，解决办法就会来了。我经常在床边放一个笔记本，强迫自己起床做笔记。如果我睡着了，我就会失去它。这有点棘手，因为有时候当你要进入深度休息时，你会认为一个想法真的很好，但当你醒来读到你写的东西时，它并不总是那么好。但无论如何，在想出一个真正的好主意后睡觉感觉很好。”

“我也有一个速写本，我在里面写笔记，当我陷入困境时，我就像看小抄一样翻看它。”

not excited about—I need more time in the day. But I am excited about this newsletter I started 1.5 years ago. I have gotten to meet so many amazing people and just follow whatever is inspiring me at the moment, which is a real gift." "This is going to sound insane, but I really like writing. I would love to be able to do more of it. I am also excited to get offline. I am also excited about How To Heal From Heartbreak, a book that I did with my best friend, Vera, coming out this month." "I am also excited about possibly visiting France next year for an art retreat that I am hosting. I am excited about finding something that Josh loves doing. I am excited about seeing Margaret grow and thrive. I want a second child. But that might not be in the cards."">: “我很难找到我想要的东西不我需要更多的时间。但我对此很兴奋通讯我是1.5年前开始的。我遇到了这么多了不起的人，我可以追随目前鼓舞我的事情，这是一份真正的礼物。”

“这听起来很疯狂，但我真的很喜欢写作。我希望能多做一些这样的事情。我也很兴奋能下线。我也很兴奋如何从心碎中痊愈这本书是我和我最好的朋友维拉(Vera)合著的，将于本月出版。”

“我也很兴奋明年可能会去法国参加我主持的艺术静修会。我很高兴能找到乔什喜欢做的事情。看到玛格丽特成长茁壮，我很兴奋。我想要第二个孩子。但这可能不太可能。”

peopleiveloved.com and at @peopleiveloved on Instagram. To shop the eco-friendly furnishings and decor featured in this article, head over to Pottery Barn Kids.">: 继续跟随Carissa(和Margaret)在peopleiveloved.com而在@peopleivelovedInstagram。

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